LostOne, Please don't feel that you are alone or a bad person for not having the "ego strength" to deal with the solution to you problem. I have been there a couple of times in my life. It is a combination of stress and grief. It is not weakness or lack of character, it is a legitimate medical condition.
Remember that no one sets out to make bad decisions which will ruin our life. We make the best decisions that we can at the time depending on who we are, what we know and what strength we have to deal with things.
The process of filing BK, is one which physically an emotionally drains all of us. Talk to this group as much as possible (I haven't been around much lately) and you will find that there are always people who will listen and give you advice from their experiences. Best wishes, Art
Remember that no one sets out to make bad decisions which will ruin our life. We make the best decisions that we can at the time depending on who we are, what we know and what strength we have to deal with things.
The process of filing BK, is one which physically an emotionally drains all of us. Talk to this group as much as possible (I haven't been around much lately) and you will find that there are always people who will listen and give you advice from their experiences. Best wishes, Art
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