hey guys,
I am about to hire an attorney to file chapter 7. I've talked to two close friends about bk. Both were stunned that I was even considering it. But they have been supportive once I explained what I know, a lot of what I've learned from this site and other sites.
But today I was at work with a good colleague and we were talking about the economy and all (Bearn Stearns, the subprime mess), and I thought, should I tell him about filing? I couldn't decide if telling him would be giving too much info that he doesn't want. On the other hand, I don't want to keep up walls with people. Staying distant has been one of my problems and one of the reasons I'm in this predicament. I think isolation led to a lot of crazy spending.
I've love to hear about who you told about bk and who you didn't? ... I know this will be different for everyone, but just curious if people told their family, friends--most of family? ... many friends?
Just trying to find a good balance.
I am about to hire an attorney to file chapter 7. I've talked to two close friends about bk. Both were stunned that I was even considering it. But they have been supportive once I explained what I know, a lot of what I've learned from this site and other sites.
But today I was at work with a good colleague and we were talking about the economy and all (Bearn Stearns, the subprime mess), and I thought, should I tell him about filing? I couldn't decide if telling him would be giving too much info that he doesn't want. On the other hand, I don't want to keep up walls with people. Staying distant has been one of my problems and one of the reasons I'm in this predicament. I think isolation led to a lot of crazy spending.
I've love to hear about who you told about bk and who you didn't? ... I know this will be different for everyone, but just curious if people told their family, friends--most of family? ... many friends?
Just trying to find a good balance.
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