I went from being in my junior year of college making almost $50,000 a year while living in a dorm room to making under $12,000 a year. I've been through a bankruptcy. I've had liens, multiple levies. I've seen a lot. I've lived in a van for instance.
My advice to people who will listen and are going from a time of having a lot to having nothing is to not be afraid to let go.
Sometimes you need to just let it all go instead of throwing everything you got into trying to save things and stay afloat. Let it go and save your energy & resources for when you can rebuild again without having all this against you.
I see people here afraid to lose their $30,000 cars for instance. Hey, you don't need a $30,000 car! You can get one for $500 that will probably last you at least a year. You have a nice house worth $300,000 and you don't want to lose it? Well you know what? There are places in this country where you can rent a home in a decent neighborhood for $600 a month. Why are you doing this to yourself?
Sometimes it's better just to let it go as opposed to fighting it all and losing it all anyway. If you let it go sure you lose that house and that car. But if you sit there and fight when it is near hopeless not only will you eventually lose that house and car all the same but you will also lose everything you put into it to try to save it (and probably putting yourself in deeper). And all those resources could have easily helped to make life a lot easier for you had you just let go.
Don't be afraid to let go when it is the smartest thing to do. You're better off living below your means...
My advice to people who will listen and are going from a time of having a lot to having nothing is to not be afraid to let go.
Sometimes you need to just let it all go instead of throwing everything you got into trying to save things and stay afloat. Let it go and save your energy & resources for when you can rebuild again without having all this against you.
I see people here afraid to lose their $30,000 cars for instance. Hey, you don't need a $30,000 car! You can get one for $500 that will probably last you at least a year. You have a nice house worth $300,000 and you don't want to lose it? Well you know what? There are places in this country where you can rent a home in a decent neighborhood for $600 a month. Why are you doing this to yourself?
Sometimes it's better just to let it go as opposed to fighting it all and losing it all anyway. If you let it go sure you lose that house and that car. But if you sit there and fight when it is near hopeless not only will you eventually lose that house and car all the same but you will also lose everything you put into it to try to save it (and probably putting yourself in deeper). And all those resources could have easily helped to make life a lot easier for you had you just let go.
Don't be afraid to let go when it is the smartest thing to do. You're better off living below your means...
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