Hello everyone,
I am stuck with a decision here that is troubling me.
My biggest debts are student loans, but I also owe about $15k in credit cards and medical bills. I currently have a garnishment for a private student loan. My income is low enough to file chapter 7 without a problem.
The first lawyer I consulted didn't hesitate on the chapter 7. She was confident that I could get a consolidation loan to cover the private student loans as soon as I was discharged so that it didn't go back into garnishment. I didn't care much for this lawyer though so I kept looking.
Lawyer #2...well, nothing good to say about him.
Lawyer #3 is fantastic. I met him last week and he was really great. Very knowledgable and took the time to really understand my case. He agreed that chapter 7 wouldn't be a problem for me. But he was not as confident about getting a consolidation loan for the student loans and thought maybe chapter 13 was the better way to go.
13 does make sense, it would put the payments for all of my student loans into my 13 payment so for at least 3 years, I wouldn't have to worry about the garnishments or anything.
But, chapter 13 scares me. I hate the idea of being so accountable to the courts for up to five years. If I get a better job, that money goes to them, right? My lawyer told me I'd need permission to buy a new car. And have to account for where I got the extra money to buy a new car. Let's face it, I'm driving a 7 year old chevy with over 100K miles, I'm going to need a new car within the next few years. What about savings? What about the wedding I'm planning and want to start saving for? What about trying to buy a house with my future husband in a couple of years? Am I going to have to account for every penny I make and/or spend for the next five years? Will marriage and our combined income affect my payments because I (we) have more money? What if we start a family (we plan to) and I have to buy diapers and pay for daycare?
I don't blame him for this at all, but my partner won't marry me until my bankruptcy stuff is taken care of. He doesn't want to be responsible for financial wreckage I caused years ago (I have improved my financial responsibility by about 500% in the past three years) and I understand that.
I guess I just saw Chapter 7 as a fresh start (even with the bad credit rating, etc) but I see Chapter 13 as a trap.
I know repaying my debts is my responsibility and that my student loans are not going away. I have no problem paying on those.
Anyone been in this situation? Any advice? I want to hire this lawyer and get started ASAP but just don't know which direction to go. Lawyer will let me make the decision but I'm just not sure which way to go.
Help!
~Onyx
I am stuck with a decision here that is troubling me.
My biggest debts are student loans, but I also owe about $15k in credit cards and medical bills. I currently have a garnishment for a private student loan. My income is low enough to file chapter 7 without a problem.
The first lawyer I consulted didn't hesitate on the chapter 7. She was confident that I could get a consolidation loan to cover the private student loans as soon as I was discharged so that it didn't go back into garnishment. I didn't care much for this lawyer though so I kept looking.
Lawyer #2...well, nothing good to say about him.
Lawyer #3 is fantastic. I met him last week and he was really great. Very knowledgable and took the time to really understand my case. He agreed that chapter 7 wouldn't be a problem for me. But he was not as confident about getting a consolidation loan for the student loans and thought maybe chapter 13 was the better way to go.
13 does make sense, it would put the payments for all of my student loans into my 13 payment so for at least 3 years, I wouldn't have to worry about the garnishments or anything.
But, chapter 13 scares me. I hate the idea of being so accountable to the courts for up to five years. If I get a better job, that money goes to them, right? My lawyer told me I'd need permission to buy a new car. And have to account for where I got the extra money to buy a new car. Let's face it, I'm driving a 7 year old chevy with over 100K miles, I'm going to need a new car within the next few years. What about savings? What about the wedding I'm planning and want to start saving for? What about trying to buy a house with my future husband in a couple of years? Am I going to have to account for every penny I make and/or spend for the next five years? Will marriage and our combined income affect my payments because I (we) have more money? What if we start a family (we plan to) and I have to buy diapers and pay for daycare?
I don't blame him for this at all, but my partner won't marry me until my bankruptcy stuff is taken care of. He doesn't want to be responsible for financial wreckage I caused years ago (I have improved my financial responsibility by about 500% in the past three years) and I understand that.
I guess I just saw Chapter 7 as a fresh start (even with the bad credit rating, etc) but I see Chapter 13 as a trap.
I know repaying my debts is my responsibility and that my student loans are not going away. I have no problem paying on those.
Anyone been in this situation? Any advice? I want to hire this lawyer and get started ASAP but just don't know which direction to go. Lawyer will let me make the decision but I'm just not sure which way to go.
Help!
~Onyx
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