Probably not the right place/forum for this...but since I imagine many BK's & divorces happen at same/similar times..thought I would ask for 'others experiences'...
Ultimately, I would like to get a divorce, get rid of CC debt, walk away from or give home to hubby or have him buy me out somehow...and truly get a fresh start in life!!! I thought I was going to do BK first, then do divorce & maybe home buy out (if that were to be possible somehow) Now it appears everything is a big MESS. Need to wait to file BK (to spend down resources & better plan ahead), which means have to wait on divorce, especially if there is any chance of possibly having hubby 'buy me out' of home (he would borrow money from a friend of his for this), because I have learned here any divorce settlement would go to BK estate if I do that first...but waiting on BK could mean being sued by CC companies..UGH! What a flippin' mess!
BK then Divorce = get sued by CC companies, lose resources hoped to be for 'fresh start', probably lose house to foreclosure...(plus who know what all else..)
Divorce then BK = lose any chance at a buy out by hubby for house, (since $$ would just go to BK estate) and can't hold off on BK long enough to wait out using resources first, yet would not be enough to pay off CC debt and still could end up being sued by CC companies...(again, plus who know what all else..)
Either way I need a new place to live & money to live on, and either way it looks like I will not end up with neither!
Looks like a lose/lose situation no matter how I slice it. Good thing I am not the suicidal type!
Anyone "divorce & then declare BK'"...How did it go? I am in CA, community property state. All debts are "joint".
~JJ
Ultimately, I would like to get a divorce, get rid of CC debt, walk away from or give home to hubby or have him buy me out somehow...and truly get a fresh start in life!!! I thought I was going to do BK first, then do divorce & maybe home buy out (if that were to be possible somehow) Now it appears everything is a big MESS. Need to wait to file BK (to spend down resources & better plan ahead), which means have to wait on divorce, especially if there is any chance of possibly having hubby 'buy me out' of home (he would borrow money from a friend of his for this), because I have learned here any divorce settlement would go to BK estate if I do that first...but waiting on BK could mean being sued by CC companies..UGH! What a flippin' mess!
BK then Divorce = get sued by CC companies, lose resources hoped to be for 'fresh start', probably lose house to foreclosure...(plus who know what all else..)
Divorce then BK = lose any chance at a buy out by hubby for house, (since $$ would just go to BK estate) and can't hold off on BK long enough to wait out using resources first, yet would not be enough to pay off CC debt and still could end up being sued by CC companies...(again, plus who know what all else..)
Either way I need a new place to live & money to live on, and either way it looks like I will not end up with neither!
Looks like a lose/lose situation no matter how I slice it. Good thing I am not the suicidal type!
Anyone "divorce & then declare BK'"...How did it go? I am in CA, community property state. All debts are "joint".
~JJ
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