just venting and wanting opinions

[cameron]

I found out my charged 35k in credit cards a couple of weeks ago. My life has been turned upside down. I can't sleep at night. I don't know what to do.



here is our money situation

bills
phone 100.00
gas 400 a month total for 2 cars
cable 70.00
car insurance 140 a month
house note 500 a month
babysitting 385 a month
credit cards 700 a month
food at least 500 a month family of 4 (newborn milk is like 5 a gallon)
electricity 150.00

here is our money clear

3200


leaves us with about 300 a month, not counting emergencys, or anything unexpected.

[cameron]

also wanted to add the chance of a decent lawsuit settlement with the person having a 150k policy and he broke a bone in my back. but that is not anything to hope for but...... its out there.

[frogger]

This is not making a lot of sense. Could you please explain the entire situation better?

[justbroke]

Yes, please explain. For example... who charged $35K to your card last week... you, your spouse, your live in lover???

What are you trying to do?

[Faust]

I've been following this.

He just found out a couple weeks ago that his wife has been opening accounts and charged up 35k in debt without his knowing.

[jribe]

Cameron-
I feel bad for your situation, but you keep posting essentially the same information over and over.

You have been given some good advice in your previous posts about this.

Please seek the guidance of both a marriage counselor and an attorney.

good luck

[lindsay2181]

I've been following your threads too and after reading this I see you're doing MUCH better than me. We would be in heaven with $300 leftover every month.....

[Faust]

I've been following your threads too and after reading this I see you're doing MUCH better than me. We would be in heaven with $300 leftover every month.....

Yeah, you and me both!