I'm new to this forum. I have a few general questions,hop someone here can point me in the right direction..
My wife and I feel like we are up to our eyeballs in debt. We have a mortgage, two car payments, a big student loan (mine), and lots of CC debt.
I have a good stable job, but we've always lived at or slightly beyond oure means. I've always managed to get pay increases, or bonuses to pay stuf down..the downturn int eh economy has brought no additional pay, no bonuses, and pay cuts.
I have a stable job, do not expect to lose it, but exect my payto stay very flat over the enxt several years... it's posible I may get another 10% cut n teh near future..
i went to a local attorney who advised I didn't qualify for a ch 13 b/c I made too muchm oney.
I earn about $140k/year.
I live in Riverside County, CA. I am married. 3 small kids.
Mortgage is about $2000 / month. that'sa first, second, including taxes in an impoung cct.
2 car payments. each about $500... so $1000/month.
Student loan is $1000/month... i've already stretched it out to 25 years.i owe abou $125k total. grad school...
Ou house is valued at about $250k,but we owe 380. a 300 first and an 80k second.
we have about $75-80k in credit card debt.. i don't know how we did that..ut we did. i really can't say I have anything fantastic to show for it.. too much eating out,a few too many vacations.. clothes crap here and there..and do that for 5+ years and the bills ile up...
we have looked at our income and debts and feel like there is no rel way to pay them down to get out from under it. our credit card minimums, my student loan, the mortgage, and the cars... that sucks up a lot of our money.wt is left ovr goes to groceries and othe rnecessities.. the only way to cut custs substatially would be to sell a car... go to one car..whic is not doable... if I bought a cheaper car, i could maybe sve a few hundred bucks a month. maybe... both our cars are relatively new 2006 and2007, and haveabout 50k m iles on each. they are japanese, reliable.. one cr has 4 years left of pyments, one has 3 years left of payments. i'd just assume keep them, ay them off and see how long I can make them last.
i had a third car / toy car... that was big money pit.. i sold it. it is gone. lesson learned...
is bankruptcy my only option? i looked into forbearing ordeferringm y student loans but sallie mae says i earn too much and don't qualify...
i talked to one lawyer ho said if I did a c 13 i could strip my second. i' still be underwater afterteh strip..but not by much... if I stayed long term i'd be a whole lot closer to having some equity vs being underwater for decades...
a couple of qwuestions.. if I do ch 13.. how much can I expecty my monthly payment to be?
ina ch 13, do they basically take ever spare cent you have and I"m living on next tonothing for 5 years.. isf that is teh case, i might as well just do it tomyself..suferfor 5 years and try to pay if off the hard way... or is it easier to maintain somewhat of a comforetable lifestyle on a ch 13 and stil make payments.. will there be any money for a dinner out, a trip somwhere.. or will I be living o a shoestring budget for 5 years? i don't expect to be out buying jewelry, new cars, etc.. but is it doable?
how long will it stay n my record? is it 7 or 10 years? and is that fro when I FILE r from when it's over? like.. ifi did a 5 year ch 13...is this going to be haunting me 15years from n ow... or oly 7-10 frm when i FILE?
is it possible to buy a house after BK? if so, how long and when?
if a car were to die while I was in BK.. or some other unepcted emergency..am I basically SOL for credit?
what do you do for CC while in the plan? so many places demand a CC to do anything.. rent a car, etc.. can you just get a prepad debit card and use that?
how do I know BK is the right thing to do? I feel like I"m out of options..but don't know how to really figure out if I could honestly pay this all off mself the hard way and maybe i'm thinking BK is an easy way out???
if I do BK - what do I do to strtagically do it the best?
stop paying my first or secodn for a few months? can I keep that money as a safety net?
stop paying credit cards or cars for some short period of time? i figured if I stopped paying eeryone for a few months..i'd stockpile a nice emergency fund.. or can you not do that? I don't want to g out any buy crap like a big screen and then file...but if I could somehow stop paying and pcket that cash.and have that for emergencies.i will or can you not do that.
thanks
My wife and I feel like we are up to our eyeballs in debt. We have a mortgage, two car payments, a big student loan (mine), and lots of CC debt.
I have a good stable job, but we've always lived at or slightly beyond oure means. I've always managed to get pay increases, or bonuses to pay stuf down..the downturn int eh economy has brought no additional pay, no bonuses, and pay cuts.
I have a stable job, do not expect to lose it, but exect my payto stay very flat over the enxt several years... it's posible I may get another 10% cut n teh near future..
i went to a local attorney who advised I didn't qualify for a ch 13 b/c I made too muchm oney.
I earn about $140k/year.
I live in Riverside County, CA. I am married. 3 small kids.
Mortgage is about $2000 / month. that'sa first, second, including taxes in an impoung cct.
2 car payments. each about $500... so $1000/month.
Student loan is $1000/month... i've already stretched it out to 25 years.i owe abou $125k total. grad school...
Ou house is valued at about $250k,but we owe 380. a 300 first and an 80k second.
we have about $75-80k in credit card debt.. i don't know how we did that..ut we did. i really can't say I have anything fantastic to show for it.. too much eating out,a few too many vacations.. clothes crap here and there..and do that for 5+ years and the bills ile up...
we have looked at our income and debts and feel like there is no rel way to pay them down to get out from under it. our credit card minimums, my student loan, the mortgage, and the cars... that sucks up a lot of our money.wt is left ovr goes to groceries and othe rnecessities.. the only way to cut custs substatially would be to sell a car... go to one car..whic is not doable... if I bought a cheaper car, i could maybe sve a few hundred bucks a month. maybe... both our cars are relatively new 2006 and2007, and haveabout 50k m iles on each. they are japanese, reliable.. one cr has 4 years left of pyments, one has 3 years left of payments. i'd just assume keep them, ay them off and see how long I can make them last.
i had a third car / toy car... that was big money pit.. i sold it. it is gone. lesson learned...
is bankruptcy my only option? i looked into forbearing ordeferringm y student loans but sallie mae says i earn too much and don't qualify...
i talked to one lawyer ho said if I did a c 13 i could strip my second. i' still be underwater afterteh strip..but not by much... if I stayed long term i'd be a whole lot closer to having some equity vs being underwater for decades...
a couple of qwuestions.. if I do ch 13.. how much can I expecty my monthly payment to be?
ina ch 13, do they basically take ever spare cent you have and I"m living on next tonothing for 5 years.. isf that is teh case, i might as well just do it tomyself..suferfor 5 years and try to pay if off the hard way... or is it easier to maintain somewhat of a comforetable lifestyle on a ch 13 and stil make payments.. will there be any money for a dinner out, a trip somwhere.. or will I be living o a shoestring budget for 5 years? i don't expect to be out buying jewelry, new cars, etc.. but is it doable?
how long will it stay n my record? is it 7 or 10 years? and is that fro when I FILE r from when it's over? like.. ifi did a 5 year ch 13...is this going to be haunting me 15years from n ow... or oly 7-10 frm when i FILE?
is it possible to buy a house after BK? if so, how long and when?
if a car were to die while I was in BK.. or some other unepcted emergency..am I basically SOL for credit?
what do you do for CC while in the plan? so many places demand a CC to do anything.. rent a car, etc.. can you just get a prepad debit card and use that?
how do I know BK is the right thing to do? I feel like I"m out of options..but don't know how to really figure out if I could honestly pay this all off mself the hard way and maybe i'm thinking BK is an easy way out???
if I do BK - what do I do to strtagically do it the best?
stop paying my first or secodn for a few months? can I keep that money as a safety net?
stop paying credit cards or cars for some short period of time? i figured if I stopped paying eeryone for a few months..i'd stockpile a nice emergency fund.. or can you not do that? I don't want to g out any buy crap like a big screen and then file...but if I could somehow stop paying and pcket that cash.and have that for emergencies.i will or can you not do that.
thanks
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