Thoughts on pre-nuptial agreements?

[OhioFiler]

well then since apparently you are a paralegal ??????????????? BIG news to me..................and you KNOW i'm one...you'd know why...right...just to make certain your ok...that's all....trust no one...apparently....except for those FEW that may REALLY care....

Apparently, I KNOW I REALLY trust backtoschool and care as well.

[backtoschool]

well then since apparently you are a paralegal ??????????????? BIG news to me..................and you KNOW i'm one...you'd know why...right...just to make certain your ok...that's all....trust no one...apparently....except for those FEW that may REALLY care....

I don't feel the need for a prenup. I will gladly share my bkforum memorabilia, my $300 Orchard bank credit card, and my $100k of non dischargable student loans with OhioFiler.

[OhioFiler]

I don't feel the need for a prenup. I will gladly share my bkforum memorabilia, my $300 Orchard bank credit card, and my $100k of non dischargable student loans with OhioFiler.

I married you for your dowry.

[tobee43]

I don't feel the need for a prenup. I will gladly share my bkforum memorabilia, my $300 Orchard bank credit card, and my $100k of non dischargable student loans with OhioFiler.

that's bcuz you are worth far more than that...........money and brain wise....so i guess HE's ahead...

[tobee43]

Apparently, I KNOW I REALLY trust backtoschool and care as well.

if really true....ok....than you should LOVE me.......since trust is a big thing for BTS.......and you best be true to your word...

i'm certain no one wants to read all this.........


however, if TRUE....BTS.........miss you and hope your well.............

[backtoschool]

I married you for your dowry.

I am so glad that that old jar of moldy pennies that my father gave you to take me off his hands has helped in your pre-bk budgeting.

[tobee43]

I married you for your dowry.

no for her brains and beauty.........and potential to make bucks............LOL!!!!!!!!!!!

[OhioFiler]

that's bcuz you are worth far more than that...........money and brain wise....so i guess HE's ahead...

Finally, you nailed it....well half of it.... I am WAY WAY ahead.....with her stunning brain why would I need money?

[tobee43]

I am so glad that that old jar of moldy pennies that my father gave you to take me off his hands has helped in your pre-bk budgeting.

you most likely budget it all.........and most likely perfectly.........and apparently, one of those pennies was worth a "pretty" penny.

[backtoschool]

if really true....ok....than you should LOVE me.......since trust is a big thing for BTS.......and you best be true to your word...

i'm certain no one wants to read all this.........


however, if TRUE....BTS.........miss you and hope your well.............

It's good to see you tobee43. Thanks for the kind words.

[tobee43]

Finally, you nailed it....well half of it.... I am WAY WAY ahead.....with her stunning brain why would I need money?

you don't need a DIME........but you should share her brain.....

[tobee43]

It's good to see you tobee43. Thanks for the kind words.

sooooooooooo glad to have you "back"....really missed you!!!

[OhioFiler]

you don't need a DIME........but you should share her brain.....

Come on....we're still on our honeymoon. I ain't sharin' nothing!

[helpmeout]

I didn't have one, nor would I have agreed to sign one given our circumstances at the time we married. Neither one of us had any real assets to protect before we married. Had my ex had significant assets, I would have signed a pre-nup that he got them as long as they weren't co-mingled (such as sold to buy the family home). If I had significant assets at the time of marriage, I would have wanted a pre-nup with the same conditions.

[ValleYum]

My hubby and I got married in our 40's.

He asked me to marry him 10 days after I was diagnosed with a SVA (aneurysm in my heart). He needed a Lemon Law agreement. LOL

To me, happiness in marriage = independence within your dependence. You can try to protect your $ and stuff with a pre-nup but what is gonna protect your heart if you break up?

Falling in love is easy. Staying in love takes hard work. I can honestly say that it is worth it. We both agree that we are even stronger as a couple after our little "speedbump" of bankruptcy.

My .02 worth.