Love Issue? (feel free to response or comment)

[philslyn]

I wanted him out of my life! been pushing him away
now that hes gone and finally over me. i kinda miss him, i always love him. but i know i wil be ok.
is it normal to break up with somebody and miss him and felt the need to beg him back.??? I know if i asked him back he wil get fat head! should i wait for him? or should i move on! we have issues BIG TIME! but he said today my charm is over! what the heck is that about? Oh well i miss him and love him. but if he dont want me anymore. i guess i have to move on and spend more time with this forum hahhaha.

[justbroke]

I've never had a woman beg me to come back. (But, alas, I can't count all my girlfriends in my life of more than 30 years, on one hand, and still have fingers left.)

While I think they miss me, and I them, I have never had anyone beg.

Move on. Something doesn't sound right if you're that dependent... or maybe it's just me???

[JRScott]

It is normal to miss those you care about regardless of the circumstance of separation.

In any relationship both people have to swallow their pride and serve the whole and not the individual.

I would not wait, as if you wait other opportunities could be missed. In fact it might do some good to see others for a time. If you two are meant to be together and your love is strong enough then in time it will come to pass. However you can't pass up that something better might come while waiting.

If you have Big Issues with one another if it is to work out you both have to be willing to work on those issues.

[philslyn]

let go

let go and see if its gonna come back to you?
we did that 20 times or more hahhaha. I guess this is it! in a couple of weeks i will be attending a seminar regarding Bk . the lawyer i work with invited me! hope to share that with you guys.
i wanna pursue my immigration knowledge, however im thinking of improving my knowledge with bk coz i know pretty soon people are gonna be needing it hope not.. but yeah thank u to both of you.

[DisneyGirl]

Most likely it's the idea of the relationship you're missing and not the actual person. Sounds like you are way better off without him.

[twuoo]

Yes, it's easy to say, but hard to do....time to close this chapter in your life and move on.

I've resolved that I'd rather be by myself than miserable with someone else. Life is just too short to be upset that much of the time!

Fight the urge to fill the void with somebody else immediately.

[deadbroke99]

I wanted him out of my life! been pushing him away
now that hes gone and finally over me. i kinda miss him, i always love him. but i know i wil be ok.
is it normal to break up with somebody and miss him and felt the need to beg him back.??? I know if i asked him back he wil get fat head! should i wait for him? or should i move on! we have issues BIG TIME! but he said today my charm is over! what the heck is that about? Oh well i miss him and love him. but if he dont want me anymore. i guess i have to move on and spend more time with this forum hahhaha.

The grass is always greener on the other side until you find out that's where the cows are shi*ing

[Intoodeep80]

The grass is always greener on the other side until you find out that's where the cows are shi*ing

BWAH HAHAHHAHAHAH!!!!! Now that is one Im going to use in the future!

[Intoodeep80]

I've never had a woman beg me to come back.

Me neither.... It might make a difference that Im gay though

[relief13035]

Are you one of those HOT gay guys that we wish we could convert back?

[AngelinaCatHub]

let go and see if its gonna come back to you?
we did that 20 times or more hahhaha. No hahaha, this is not a laughter matter. I have been there and done that as a receiver and a giver. It was a life crisis in both cases. Mrs. C is my second wife, does that explain enough? I guess this is it! in a couple of weeks i will be attending a seminar regarding Bk . the lawyer i work with invited me! hope to share that with you guys.
i wanna pursue my immigration knowledge, however im thinking of improving my knowledge with bk coz i know pretty soon people are gonna be needing it hope not.. but yeah thank u to both of you.

You seem to be a quintessential "battered wife" (partner works too). If as you said, 20 times, what makes you think 21,22,23,ad nauseous, would not apply?

I do not know your age, or circumstance only what you posted. Why invite the partner back who would put you through this 20 times?

What is the true determination of mental? "Doing the same things over again, and expecting different results." Wise up, and move on. 'Hub

[AngelinaCatHub]

Are you one of those HOT gay guys that we wish we could convert back?

LoL

[liz417]

Are you one of those HOT gay guys that we wish we could convert back?

Gosh, I've got to make a new rule when I "click" on your responses...NO DRINKING ANYTHING!! LOL!!

[relief13035]

Do you watch "Colorsplash" on HGTV? Dang, David Bromstad.....I'd love to try to get him to "switch teams". His muscles and tattoos make me quiver...........hehehehehehe...

[philslyn]

guys

we are back again! THank u all for the effort!