Divorced folks......

[magyar123]

Quick poll : Would you attend your ex's funeral if you didn't have kids with that ex?

[AngelinaCatHub]

I respect and still love my first wife. We had two daughters. She was a wonderful mother, we just grew in different directions and I could not live with her.

Yes I would, children or not. 'Hub

[Minnymouth]

absolutely

When my uncle passed away, all 4 of his wives came to the funeral.... and were very cordial to each other...

[DisneyGirl]

No, out of respect for his current wife I would not go.

[Minnymouth]

absolutely

[catalina2225]

I would go just so I could wear a red dress and fish net stockings and dance on his grave after everyone left. Ha.

[liz417]

i would go just so i could wear a red dress and fish net stockings and dance on his grave after everyone left. Ha.

lol

[TEW]

your funny liz
I wouldn't go I can stand to be near her while she's alive

[relief13035]

I would not go if he had a current wife. Then again, I highly doubt anyone would ever marry him. If my kids asked me to go, I would go to support them though.

[Andyman]

I respect and still love my first wife. We had two daughters. She was a wonderful mother, we just grew in different directions and I could not live with her.

Yes I would, children or not. 'Hub

My ex was a wonderful person. We were married for over 20 years. I broke her heart and am still sorry for that. If I knew she passed away I would be terribly sad. I'd want to go to the funeral but if she's remarried I would probably just go privately and pay my respects.

[GreenInkOnPaper]

Hmmm. If my ex died, it would likely be because he was driving while wasted. I'd have to think about it....

[Flamingo]

My ex is deceased and I did go to his funeral and still would have gone even if we did not have two daughters together. That person was a part of your life no matter how bad or good it was at the time of your marriage and at one point you loved that person and still may love them - I don't see why it should create an issue if there was another spouse involved, that new spouse should understand; unless the ex did not tell his new spouse he was formerly married...

Now if your ex used to come at you with an axe/knife and you had to run for your life several times during your marriage, I don't think I would attend under those circumstances. Sometimes the circumstances are horrific and attending would just bring back traumatic memories for someone in that situation.

[twuoo]

That's an affirmative HELL NO from me....lol.

During the divorce, the guy turned into the biggest jerk ever.

Wish I could severe all ties, but we have a child.

I'll forever be tied to the shmuck.

If I went, it would be to throw some dung on his grave.

Whew, that didn't come out angry sounding did it?

[justbroke]

I don't even like to attend funerals, so... any excuse not to go, is good for me!