Help from those of you who already been thru divorce games with kids involved!

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TEW, you state the all-too-obvious.

There are thousands of psych books related to this subject matter. If I had the magic solution to help myself, I'd not be seeking the advice of those who have already 'been there and done that'.

As the previous poster stated, the kids figure out for themselves what we do not need to convey.