This is mostly to vent some things that are banging around in my brain, so here it goes:
Let me preface this by saying that I have a long history of major depressive disorder and general anxiety, for which I am currently being treated with medication and cognitive-behavioral therapy.
I am overwhelmed with anxiety about filing for Chapter 7. It's not the normal "I'm a terrible person" or "Filing is morally wrong" thoughts that others seem to have. I am obsessively worried about making a mistake in my filing, even though I have a seemingly very competent attorney helping me with my case. I stress over small credit card charges I've made, things on my tax return that seem "abnormal" (but really aren't), or even changing my habits slightly prior to filing in an attempt to not seem like a "fraud" to the trustee. It terrifies me that my discharge can be jeopardized just because a trustee doesn't like me for some reason.
I'm not sure how to overcome the anxiety other than to try and forget about it for a few moments, but then that leads to further anxiety that I am not caring enough or not working hard enough even though my filing will not be for months. There's also the added anxiety of missing my payments for the first time in my life due to the advice given by my attorney and the fact that I need to pay my attorney's fees prior to filing.
I'm sure others have felt this way and experienced these things, but it's easy to feel extremely alone and hopeless when you have this big, life-changing, oncoming event that can make or break your future, and I'm just not sure what to do to quiet the noise.
Let me preface this by saying that I have a long history of major depressive disorder and general anxiety, for which I am currently being treated with medication and cognitive-behavioral therapy.
I am overwhelmed with anxiety about filing for Chapter 7. It's not the normal "I'm a terrible person" or "Filing is morally wrong" thoughts that others seem to have. I am obsessively worried about making a mistake in my filing, even though I have a seemingly very competent attorney helping me with my case. I stress over small credit card charges I've made, things on my tax return that seem "abnormal" (but really aren't), or even changing my habits slightly prior to filing in an attempt to not seem like a "fraud" to the trustee. It terrifies me that my discharge can be jeopardized just because a trustee doesn't like me for some reason.
I'm not sure how to overcome the anxiety other than to try and forget about it for a few moments, but then that leads to further anxiety that I am not caring enough or not working hard enough even though my filing will not be for months. There's also the added anxiety of missing my payments for the first time in my life due to the advice given by my attorney and the fact that I need to pay my attorney's fees prior to filing.
I'm sure others have felt this way and experienced these things, but it's easy to feel extremely alone and hopeless when you have this big, life-changing, oncoming event that can make or break your future, and I'm just not sure what to do to quiet the noise.
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