I was discharged at the end of August and have recently been discussing bk with my sister - she and her husband are pondering doing it too. The situation is they are drowning in debt - her husband's 4 credit cards are in default though my sister's are paid up to date but they don't have the money to pay his cards to even save anything in case of emergency. He is a relapsed alcoholic - and a lot of the relapse is due to the money situation. He is at that point of despair where he is being an ostrich - hiding his head in the sand and not dealing with the creditors. He has one judgement already and another coming and is most likely going to be garnished soon, which will make their situation worse.
Their situation is somewhat different than mine was and while I have encouraged her to join the forum, idk if she is going to do it any time soon so I thought I would ask a few questions for her.
First, they have a mortgage and are up to date on it and would keep the house. They have 2 mortgages on it and owe about $80k total she said and have probably $40-50k equity in it. I gave up my house so I am not sure the ins and outs of how mortgages work. I have seen people say not to pay anything - cards, mortgage, etc once you decide to file bk, but shouldn't she keep paying the mortgage and just do a ride through? And cars too? They have 2 older cars (I know hers is a 2001, his is about as old) - I don't remember if they have 2 loans still or not, but they would want to keep both so wouldn't they just keep paying? (my car was paid off and practically worthless so I didn't have to deal with this either!)
OK, I think those are the main things I couldn't answer.
P.S. I did tell her to see a credit counselor and/or lawyer to get an idea of her options.
Thanks!
Their situation is somewhat different than mine was and while I have encouraged her to join the forum, idk if she is going to do it any time soon so I thought I would ask a few questions for her.
First, they have a mortgage and are up to date on it and would keep the house. They have 2 mortgages on it and owe about $80k total she said and have probably $40-50k equity in it. I gave up my house so I am not sure the ins and outs of how mortgages work. I have seen people say not to pay anything - cards, mortgage, etc once you decide to file bk, but shouldn't she keep paying the mortgage and just do a ride through? And cars too? They have 2 older cars (I know hers is a 2001, his is about as old) - I don't remember if they have 2 loans still or not, but they would want to keep both so wouldn't they just keep paying? (my car was paid off and practically worthless so I didn't have to deal with this either!)
OK, I think those are the main things I couldn't answer.
P.S. I did tell her to see a credit counselor and/or lawyer to get an idea of her options.
Thanks!
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