Thanks Katty for your honest opinion. I don't see how I could have preferential payments if I don't pay a creditor more than $5800 during the preceding three months before I file. Remember, I would have a non-consumer filing, my limits are higher than a consumer bk.
My husband is the one with the judgments, not me. I have two possible lawsuits against me. One has filed and I am disputing it and have filed a counter-claim. No judgement on the horizon, in fact he might end up owing me money. The other one hasn't attempted collection and may never do so, as the statute of limitations is running and every day brings that day closer. I make enough money to support my family. I'm not destitute. I'm not taking out loans with the intention of never paying them back. I am doing everything that I can to not file bankruptcy and I'm winning, so far. A BK in my future is definitely not guaranteed. BK would be the easy way out and had I wanted to take that path, I would have done so two years ago, instead of going through all of the stress I have had to live through trying to stay out of BK.
I am, however, the type of person that always plans for the worst so that my life doesn't fall apart if the worst happens. If, and that is a big if, some bad things happen, I, as well as everyone else out there, could be in a position that they would have to file bankruptcy some day. I am preparing for that situation so that if it happens I will be able to file. Part of that preparation is information, and meeting with bk attorneys is how to obtain information on the bk process. Those meetings have also helped me make the decision not to file. This stinks of fraud to you? I hope others have a different opinion.
I also am the type who refuses to cower in the corner because one day some bad things might happen. Bankruptcy is a snapshot of one day in your life, and a look at what you've done for the 90 days preceding that day. BK isn't in my foreseeable future and I'm not beginning a 90 day countdown. Today I should be able to live life as I want. If I want to take out loans to remodel my underwater house, I should be free to do so. I don't use credit cards to fund my daily living expenses. These charges are a one time occurrence for a particular purpose, and they are not so huge when my yearly income is taken into consideration. If some day I decide to file, it will be because I am truly bankrupt with judgments against me and I will have seen that coming for at least the prior 90 days.
But I do thank you for your opinion. It's helpful to see how people interpret what's going on in my life. I know that I am an honest person and am not trying to defraud anyone. You don't know me, so I realize it's difficult to judge from a few comments on a message board.
My husband is the one with the judgments, not me. I have two possible lawsuits against me. One has filed and I am disputing it and have filed a counter-claim. No judgement on the horizon, in fact he might end up owing me money. The other one hasn't attempted collection and may never do so, as the statute of limitations is running and every day brings that day closer. I make enough money to support my family. I'm not destitute. I'm not taking out loans with the intention of never paying them back. I am doing everything that I can to not file bankruptcy and I'm winning, so far. A BK in my future is definitely not guaranteed. BK would be the easy way out and had I wanted to take that path, I would have done so two years ago, instead of going through all of the stress I have had to live through trying to stay out of BK.
I am, however, the type of person that always plans for the worst so that my life doesn't fall apart if the worst happens. If, and that is a big if, some bad things happen, I, as well as everyone else out there, could be in a position that they would have to file bankruptcy some day. I am preparing for that situation so that if it happens I will be able to file. Part of that preparation is information, and meeting with bk attorneys is how to obtain information on the bk process. Those meetings have also helped me make the decision not to file. This stinks of fraud to you? I hope others have a different opinion.
I also am the type who refuses to cower in the corner because one day some bad things might happen. Bankruptcy is a snapshot of one day in your life, and a look at what you've done for the 90 days preceding that day. BK isn't in my foreseeable future and I'm not beginning a 90 day countdown. Today I should be able to live life as I want. If I want to take out loans to remodel my underwater house, I should be free to do so. I don't use credit cards to fund my daily living expenses. These charges are a one time occurrence for a particular purpose, and they are not so huge when my yearly income is taken into consideration. If some day I decide to file, it will be because I am truly bankrupt with judgments against me and I will have seen that coming for at least the prior 90 days.
But I do thank you for your opinion. It's helpful to see how people interpret what's going on in my life. I know that I am an honest person and am not trying to defraud anyone. You don't know me, so I realize it's difficult to judge from a few comments on a message board.
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