I haven't been on here in a while. My husband and I were going to file chapter 7 at the end of last year. We owed about 60K in cc's and had a piece of property that we couldn't keep which has a balance of 65K.
Sadly my husband passed away at the end of Dec. He had life insurance so that puts filing BK out of the question. I have never worked, am 38 years old, and as much as I am embarrassed to admit this, did not even graduate high school. The only income I receive now is SS survivors benefits and I have the life insurance to take care of me and our 4 children.
I know in my state I am not responsible for debts incurred in his name only but that still leaves me with about 30K in debt to pay off and the property 65K.
I went to talk to our lawyer and he said that even though he put a lot of work into getting our case ready he would not charge me extra to write letters and work on my behalf to get settlements from the remaining creditors. Which I think was BS but it had only been a couple of weeks since my husband passed and I didn't care, I just wanted it to go away.
That was in January. Last month our credit union, which we have a line of credit loan with, called and left messages that I needed to call them back by such and such time and day. I called my lawyer to find out what I should do and he never got back to me. Well today taped to my door was a business card for a process server and for me to call them. I am assuming it is for the credit union and they are ready to sue. The hitch with this debt is, I am not sure if I ever signed anything on this loan. I found our original paperwork and my husband is the only one who signed it. We have had it for many years though and i don't recall if I ever signed something that puts me on the loan or not.
This lawyer is a joke. He never calls back and I'm thinking if I ask him about this, he will offer to take care of it for a fee of course. I am not sure what my options are for this. Do I bring it to him? Do I take it to another lawyer, even though I have already paid money to the other one. Can I try to fight it myself, if so what steps should I take?
Thanks if you've made it all the way through this, hope someone can help.
Sadly my husband passed away at the end of Dec. He had life insurance so that puts filing BK out of the question. I have never worked, am 38 years old, and as much as I am embarrassed to admit this, did not even graduate high school. The only income I receive now is SS survivors benefits and I have the life insurance to take care of me and our 4 children.
I know in my state I am not responsible for debts incurred in his name only but that still leaves me with about 30K in debt to pay off and the property 65K.
I went to talk to our lawyer and he said that even though he put a lot of work into getting our case ready he would not charge me extra to write letters and work on my behalf to get settlements from the remaining creditors. Which I think was BS but it had only been a couple of weeks since my husband passed and I didn't care, I just wanted it to go away.
That was in January. Last month our credit union, which we have a line of credit loan with, called and left messages that I needed to call them back by such and such time and day. I called my lawyer to find out what I should do and he never got back to me. Well today taped to my door was a business card for a process server and for me to call them. I am assuming it is for the credit union and they are ready to sue. The hitch with this debt is, I am not sure if I ever signed anything on this loan. I found our original paperwork and my husband is the only one who signed it. We have had it for many years though and i don't recall if I ever signed something that puts me on the loan or not.
This lawyer is a joke. He never calls back and I'm thinking if I ask him about this, he will offer to take care of it for a fee of course. I am not sure what my options are for this. Do I bring it to him? Do I take it to another lawyer, even though I have already paid money to the other one. Can I try to fight it myself, if so what steps should I take?
Thanks if you've made it all the way through this, hope someone can help.
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