Hello. My 1st posting here though I have been reading and lurking since it became obvious that BK was in my family's immediate future.
We cannot claim 7 as a family since we make twice the median (I should say my spouse makes twice the median here in Michigan, and I am unemployed and a stay at home parent, as I have been unable to find work that payed enough to compensate for childcare, gas, etc.). Median is about 60k, and our household income is about 120k.
Main problem is unsecured debt. Debt has been split between us during 12 years of marriage. I have about 50k in cc's in my name. Spouse has about 100k on their cc's. We never came close to maxing out during the time this debt was accumulated from about '97 to 2006 - hadn't even used 1/2 our available credit - before 2 years ago and the financial crisis when banks cut the rest of our available credit away, right down to our balances, then raised our interest rates and minimums.
We had had no problem making payments - MORE than the minimums - until then, as I was gainfully employed, making decent money along with the spouse, we were childless, and we continued to roll debt over to low or zero-interest accounts whenever rates increased, until those options were no longer available to us. Then our young son was born. The financial crisis happened. I lost my CAREER about 2 years ago thanks to a health issue, and became the stay at home parent.
We sold our pontoon boat for cash to pay bills. We took 2 loans on the 401k. We went from $1000 in car payments and 2 newer cars to one 2001 Pickup with 100,000 miles on it and a 2006 crossover with a $290/mo. payment. We cut lawn service, mowing and Tru Green completely out. We took a lower option on the Cable TV menu. etc. etc. But we still ran out last month.
On top of all that, our house is upside down. Its worth about 260k but we owe about 300k. We are NOT late on car or house payments. We only have the one mortgage.
In fact, right now, I am the only one late on payments, on the 5 cc's in my name. Spouse can keep up with obligations in their name, but only at minimum payments.
The option is to do a 13 together, or try something a little far out, which is for me to try and do a 7, then have the spouse do a 13 after my case is filed.
The reason to do this? To eliminate my debt completely, and have the 13 be closer to 100% payback of the total unsecured debt in the spouse's name, which would hopefully allow the TT to give us a little more leeway in our monthly budget.
I am worried to death that if we do the 13 together, the budget will be too tight, and we will fail.
We want to keep the house and cars, and keep them out of the Plan, and they are all in both of our names.
On the surface, it looks like I would NOT qualify for a 7 since the HH income is twice the Median, BUT if the Marital Adjustment (line 17) is used in the Means Test and is able to legally exempt my spouse's debt payments, I DO qualify for a 7.
The question is if the Judge will accept that Means Test, or decide that it won't fly because of a Totality of Circumstances, or some other prejudicial ruling due to the income only.
I am just really worried, as I said before, that the 13 plan we would do together would be un-doable and un-livable considering how much we have already cut. Still, doing a 7 and a 13 adds a lot more lawyer fees.
Spouse has not stopped making payments yet, but needs to decide to do so very soon. We are basically frozen into indecision right now, not knowing which is the best route to take.
I will be interested to read the thoughts on our situation here.
We cannot claim 7 as a family since we make twice the median (I should say my spouse makes twice the median here in Michigan, and I am unemployed and a stay at home parent, as I have been unable to find work that payed enough to compensate for childcare, gas, etc.). Median is about 60k, and our household income is about 120k.
Main problem is unsecured debt. Debt has been split between us during 12 years of marriage. I have about 50k in cc's in my name. Spouse has about 100k on their cc's. We never came close to maxing out during the time this debt was accumulated from about '97 to 2006 - hadn't even used 1/2 our available credit - before 2 years ago and the financial crisis when banks cut the rest of our available credit away, right down to our balances, then raised our interest rates and minimums.
We had had no problem making payments - MORE than the minimums - until then, as I was gainfully employed, making decent money along with the spouse, we were childless, and we continued to roll debt over to low or zero-interest accounts whenever rates increased, until those options were no longer available to us. Then our young son was born. The financial crisis happened. I lost my CAREER about 2 years ago thanks to a health issue, and became the stay at home parent.
We sold our pontoon boat for cash to pay bills. We took 2 loans on the 401k. We went from $1000 in car payments and 2 newer cars to one 2001 Pickup with 100,000 miles on it and a 2006 crossover with a $290/mo. payment. We cut lawn service, mowing and Tru Green completely out. We took a lower option on the Cable TV menu. etc. etc. But we still ran out last month.
On top of all that, our house is upside down. Its worth about 260k but we owe about 300k. We are NOT late on car or house payments. We only have the one mortgage.
In fact, right now, I am the only one late on payments, on the 5 cc's in my name. Spouse can keep up with obligations in their name, but only at minimum payments.
The option is to do a 13 together, or try something a little far out, which is for me to try and do a 7, then have the spouse do a 13 after my case is filed.
The reason to do this? To eliminate my debt completely, and have the 13 be closer to 100% payback of the total unsecured debt in the spouse's name, which would hopefully allow the TT to give us a little more leeway in our monthly budget.
I am worried to death that if we do the 13 together, the budget will be too tight, and we will fail.
We want to keep the house and cars, and keep them out of the Plan, and they are all in both of our names.
On the surface, it looks like I would NOT qualify for a 7 since the HH income is twice the Median, BUT if the Marital Adjustment (line 17) is used in the Means Test and is able to legally exempt my spouse's debt payments, I DO qualify for a 7.
The question is if the Judge will accept that Means Test, or decide that it won't fly because of a Totality of Circumstances, or some other prejudicial ruling due to the income only.
I am just really worried, as I said before, that the 13 plan we would do together would be un-doable and un-livable considering how much we have already cut. Still, doing a 7 and a 13 adds a lot more lawyer fees.
Spouse has not stopped making payments yet, but needs to decide to do so very soon. We are basically frozen into indecision right now, not knowing which is the best route to take.
I will be interested to read the thoughts on our situation here.
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