Please note: I am merely posting this for information, not to argue. I know that some get angry at what I post, but I am merely posting this for informational purposes. I am not an attorney and I am not writing that things are this way or that way concerning the life of an attorney. So there's no need to get upset or whine to a moderator that what I am posting is upsetting and that I should be banned. I'm just like everyone else-I'm just trying to make it and be happy and healthy. We're all gonna die-so we might as well spread kindness and happiness and help each other. And I know that the more I learn, the less I truly know. It's true that I filed pro se, and I am thankful to the members here who have posted helpful messages to help others. But there is so much about bankruptcy that I do not know. But I have read a lot, and if I can make a contribution about what someone has written that might help someone, then that is what I would like to do. I am certainly not an expert on bankruptcy law. So I am just trying to contribute in what way I can to this forum.
I am reminded of Frank Sinatra's That's Life:
Now, from JJ Luna:
First letter from an attorney:
And a letter from another lawyer:
I totally agree with what you have to say about higher education in general and law school in particular. I am personally fed up with the legal profession, and I express a quintessential dissatisfaction that is almost ubiquitous among all of my friends and colleagues in the business.
I will share with you my personal thoughts. My reasons for being dissatisfied invariably differ from other dissatisfied lawyers, but the common denominator is that most are extremely unhappy.The biggest thing is that actual practice is nothing like you imagined it would be when you decided to pursue the career in the profession.
Invariably, young people, and I include myself, decide on the profession for reasons that have nothing to do with the components of day-to-day practice. Meaning, we decide to pursue these careers because of the occupational status and the idea that these careers will pay us good incomes.
We see ourselves driving the $100,000 Mercedes Benz, sitting at the austere and dignified desk, wearing $1,500 suits, and soaking up the envy and
admiration of friends, family, and members of society.
When I was in law school working as an apprentice for a law firm, one of the senior attorneys one of the senior attorneys told me to I, of course, did not listen and thought he was just trying to keep another person from entering the ranks of legal eagles and diluting the loot they all shared.
Then reality hits. You start practicing. Once the newness wears off, you realize the mistake you made.Psychologically having to take onto your shoulders problems and responsibilities that could affect the life, death, and liberty for some clients, the entire financial futures of others, is too much to bear without taking its toll on the human mind and body.Personalities change (ask my wife), and a certain degree of jaded paranoia sets in. Innocence is lost as you find yourself daily dealing with the lowest common denominators of society, witnessing all manner of perversion. Your heart often breaks when you are brought into the midst of matrimonial break up, and young children get caught in the middle.
So you put up with all of this for what? When it really comes down to it, you do it for the social prestige, for ego reasons, and perhaps money.Medicine and law produce high consumption lifestyles almost by mandate. You spend in excess of $100,000 via borrowed student loans to acquire a degree that forces you to work like a slave to keep up the image all for what?To skip college and professional school requires one to break out of the mold and acquire a new worldview.
For all these reasons, I am now plotting my escape...My wife and I are home-schooling our children, and living a quiet, discreet life is far more important living a quiet, discreet life is far more important than anything the law ever offered.
--JJ Luna's Skip College and How to be Invisible books
I also recommend Atticus Falcon's thoughts on being an attorney:
Irate law school grads say they were misled about job prospects
We, the new slaves
I am reminded of Frank Sinatra's That's Life:
I said that's life, and as funny as it may seem
Some people get their kicks,
Stompin' on a dream
But I don't let it, let it get me down,
'Cause this fine ol' world it keeps spinning around
Each time I find myself, flat on my face,
I pick myself up and get back in the race.
I thought of quitting baby,
But my heart just ain't gonna buy it.
Each time I find myself laying flat on my face,
I just pick myself up and get back in the race
Some people get their kicks,
Stompin' on a dream
But I don't let it, let it get me down,
'Cause this fine ol' world it keeps spinning around
Each time I find myself, flat on my face,
I pick myself up and get back in the race.
I thought of quitting baby,
But my heart just ain't gonna buy it.
Each time I find myself laying flat on my face,
I just pick myself up and get back in the race
Now, from JJ Luna:
First letter from an attorney:
www.legalcareerchange.comThe problem is that so many law school graduates have no idea what the actual practice of law is really like.
Other than professional sports, there are no other occupations where
an educated professional is sitting opposite you, waiting to cut your legs out from under you if you make the slightest mistake. Living a whole life as an adversary loses its appeal pretty quickly. In fact, every publication from our state bar will have at least one article about alcoholism, drug abuse, depression, or suicide.
Other than professional sports, there are no other occupations where
an educated professional is sitting opposite you, waiting to cut your legs out from under you if you make the slightest mistake. Living a whole life as an adversary loses its appeal pretty quickly. In fact, every publication from our state bar will have at least one article about alcoholism, drug abuse, depression, or suicide.
I totally agree with what you have to say about higher education in general and law school in particular. I am personally fed up with the legal profession, and I express a quintessential dissatisfaction that is almost ubiquitous among all of my friends and colleagues in the business.
I will share with you my personal thoughts. My reasons for being dissatisfied invariably differ from other dissatisfied lawyers, but the common denominator is that most are extremely unhappy.The biggest thing is that actual practice is nothing like you imagined it would be when you decided to pursue the career in the profession.
Invariably, young people, and I include myself, decide on the profession for reasons that have nothing to do with the components of day-to-day practice. Meaning, we decide to pursue these careers because of the occupational status and the idea that these careers will pay us good incomes.
We see ourselves driving the $100,000 Mercedes Benz, sitting at the austere and dignified desk, wearing $1,500 suits, and soaking up the envy and
admiration of friends, family, and members of society.
When I was in law school working as an apprentice for a law firm, one of the senior attorneys one of the senior attorneys told me to I, of course, did not listen and thought he was just trying to keep another person from entering the ranks of legal eagles and diluting the loot they all shared.
Then reality hits. You start practicing. Once the newness wears off, you realize the mistake you made.Psychologically having to take onto your shoulders problems and responsibilities that could affect the life, death, and liberty for some clients, the entire financial futures of others, is too much to bear without taking its toll on the human mind and body.Personalities change (ask my wife), and a certain degree of jaded paranoia sets in. Innocence is lost as you find yourself daily dealing with the lowest common denominators of society, witnessing all manner of perversion. Your heart often breaks when you are brought into the midst of matrimonial break up, and young children get caught in the middle.
So you put up with all of this for what? When it really comes down to it, you do it for the social prestige, for ego reasons, and perhaps money.Medicine and law produce high consumption lifestyles almost by mandate. You spend in excess of $100,000 via borrowed student loans to acquire a degree that forces you to work like a slave to keep up the image all for what?To skip college and professional school requires one to break out of the mold and acquire a new worldview.
For all these reasons, I am now plotting my escape...My wife and I are home-schooling our children, and living a quiet, discreet life is far more important living a quiet, discreet life is far more important than anything the law ever offered.
I also recommend Atticus Falcon's thoughts on being an attorney:
Irate law school grads say they were misled about job prospects
We, the new slaves
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