Hey everyone, I am a walking country song right now. I have been living separtely from my "wife" for 1 year now. Not sure where it is heading, but everyone else seems to say the writing is on the wall about it being over. We have several cars. All are in my name. The two with loans would probably go if I file. The other two are older, and paid for, but both in my name. One of them is hers (I mean her daily driver), but is titled to me. If we separate for good, I want to make sure she gets to keep that car (even if it means I go without, or borrow one from someone for a while). It would be great to keep both, however. Should I transfer the title to her now? I wouldn't probably file until February or March if I do, but I know it isn't a year. If it was part of a legal separation agreement would that help? Since it is more likely we will determine what we are doing prior to what I am doing with BK, I wasn't sure if a separation / divorce agreement would protect her in the event I wind up filing a few months later? We are in NY.
The second part of this, is that it is so hard going through all of this unknown right now without my partner and best friend by my side, but she just isn't in to me right now, as I was not the nicest husband when I was making a lot of money, and because my business decisions are the reason I may need to file. I just miss her so much, and I am not sure what is tearing me apart more on a day to day basis, but it is just so hard to breathe or care about anything anymore.
Thanks guys
The second part of this, is that it is so hard going through all of this unknown right now without my partner and best friend by my side, but she just isn't in to me right now, as I was not the nicest husband when I was making a lot of money, and because my business decisions are the reason I may need to file. I just miss her so much, and I am not sure what is tearing me apart more on a day to day basis, but it is just so hard to breathe or care about anything anymore.
Thanks guys