I went to a 341 meeting today with a friend just to see how things go and to try to gain a sense of relief. I plan on filing this month. Anyway, now I'm more afraid than ever.
The trustee was incredibly mean to most of everyone but one in particular just really got to me:
A man and his wife filed Ch. 7 a few years ago, they're here for their 2nd Ch. 7. The TT pretty much raised his voice and demanded to know why they were back. The man told the TT "Sir, if you will notice, all of our debts now are medical. I had a major heart attack last year and my insurance barely covered anything. I cannot afford to pay all of these bills." The TT did not give him any sympathy, made him feel like a low-life. I felt so sorry for this man and his poor wife.
What is the purpose of the TT being so hateful? I mean, I understand that if you're embarrassed about it and he's mean to you it will probably deter you from getting yourself into this situation again, but I thought bankruptcy was put in place to help people.
And, by the way, who chooses these TT's?
The trustee was incredibly mean to most of everyone but one in particular just really got to me:
A man and his wife filed Ch. 7 a few years ago, they're here for their 2nd Ch. 7. The TT pretty much raised his voice and demanded to know why they were back. The man told the TT "Sir, if you will notice, all of our debts now are medical. I had a major heart attack last year and my insurance barely covered anything. I cannot afford to pay all of these bills." The TT did not give him any sympathy, made him feel like a low-life. I felt so sorry for this man and his poor wife.
What is the purpose of the TT being so hateful? I mean, I understand that if you're embarrassed about it and he's mean to you it will probably deter you from getting yourself into this situation again, but I thought bankruptcy was put in place to help people.
And, by the way, who chooses these TT's?
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