An old pilot adage is "if the plane is still in one piece, don't cheat it. Ride the bastard to the ground." However, are you really going to be in one piece once you do that, or are you just postponing the inevitable crash. What is the highest point, what is the lowest point, and when should you punch out. Another adage is "there are old pilots and there are bold pilots. There are no old, bold pilots."
I cruised for years, one emergency away from blowing it. I finally blew it and stopped paying some CCs in November because the dog needed surgery and all of my cash went to paying CCs (balances were either tapped or CLDed into oblivion...no fallback.) This year, I owe the IRS a couple thousand. I stopped paying a couple more to start stashing away for that; something else came up...dog got sick again, car will need scheduled maintenance really soon. My student loan is coming out of forebearance and I pretty much got back all I paid off in interest. I realized that I was only postponing the crash and decided this month to pull the ejection handle.
I have my first attorney appointment this afternoon; the free consult. I liked both his website and his phone info line. He has been a BK specialist for about 25 years. He seems extremely knowledgable thus far, and prices seem par for the course around here (avg 19-2000 for a 7, 3300 for a 13.)
Am hoping I can qualify for a 7 but don't pass initial means testing and fear I will be stuck with a 13 and still living without any cash padding and no cards to fall back on in case of emergency (although at least I will be budgeted for food and utilities.) Yet I feel strangely euphoric about this appointment...is this normal? Any advice from the old hands at this?
I cruised for years, one emergency away from blowing it. I finally blew it and stopped paying some CCs in November because the dog needed surgery and all of my cash went to paying CCs (balances were either tapped or CLDed into oblivion...no fallback.) This year, I owe the IRS a couple thousand. I stopped paying a couple more to start stashing away for that; something else came up...dog got sick again, car will need scheduled maintenance really soon. My student loan is coming out of forebearance and I pretty much got back all I paid off in interest. I realized that I was only postponing the crash and decided this month to pull the ejection handle.
I have my first attorney appointment this afternoon; the free consult. I liked both his website and his phone info line. He has been a BK specialist for about 25 years. He seems extremely knowledgable thus far, and prices seem par for the course around here (avg 19-2000 for a 7, 3300 for a 13.)
Am hoping I can qualify for a 7 but don't pass initial means testing and fear I will be stuck with a 13 and still living without any cash padding and no cards to fall back on in case of emergency (although at least I will be budgeted for food and utilities.) Yet I feel strangely euphoric about this appointment...is this normal? Any advice from the old hands at this?
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