It's just been one of those weekends. Friday, Amex called FIL about hubby's account. They said they didn't have a contact for us, which is untrue.
Today, got a UPS 2 day letter from Citi for hubby's account, offering a SETTLEMENT after only 60 days late. Now I'm a little panicked that they are going to sue, soon. Sooner than we wanted to file. We'd ideally like to hold out at least 3 more months.
I'm just having a moment where I feel like everyone out there "knows". Knows that we're late with our creditors. Like any minute someone is going to knock on the door looking for us. (I know...it's silly and likely would never happen, but I jumped when the UPS guy rang the bell...)
I was resolved that I was going to answer the phone today and use the speech that one of the attorney's I interviewed told me to say.
"Yes, we're aware of the situation (being late) and we're working on it" ...and that's it.
Then I chickened out....and haven't answered the phone.
I just need to feel in control again...the last few days just shook me up.
Today, got a UPS 2 day letter from Citi for hubby's account, offering a SETTLEMENT after only 60 days late. Now I'm a little panicked that they are going to sue, soon. Sooner than we wanted to file. We'd ideally like to hold out at least 3 more months.
I'm just having a moment where I feel like everyone out there "knows". Knows that we're late with our creditors. Like any minute someone is going to knock on the door looking for us. (I know...it's silly and likely would never happen, but I jumped when the UPS guy rang the bell...)
I was resolved that I was going to answer the phone today and use the speech that one of the attorney's I interviewed told me to say.
"Yes, we're aware of the situation (being late) and we're working on it" ...and that's it.
Then I chickened out....and haven't answered the phone.
I just need to feel in control again...the last few days just shook me up.
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