Our home loan mod was actually 31% of our income. Chase did their job. I need to realize we make too much money to qualify for something we "want." It is what it is. Truth is, in So. Cal, living in a nice home, paying daycare, having car payments, etc, etc, is expensive. There's no way we can pay any of our unsecured debt. I think we're going to accept the loan mod and file for Ch. 13. If we qualify for a 7 and it makes sense, we'll do it. We love our home and want to stay, but only for a couple more years. We're then considering leaving the state. I think our area is starting to degrade, and I'm not happy with the state's direction. The weather is unreal, but everything else, whatever. So, maybe 3 years in the house, the payments will be a struggle. But, we should be able to do it IF we can get rid of our unsecured debt and strip the 2nd mortgage as well. I think that's our goal right now. We're talking to a lawyer again next week.
Trying to keep a positive outlook here, so scared and just dumbfounded as to how we got here.
Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!
Trying to keep a positive outlook here, so scared and just dumbfounded as to how we got here.
Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!
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