love and bk?

[Justpoor]

Hey! I'm a single female in Florida. Any other single BK'd Floridians out there? Maybe we should meet!

[floridian]

Hey! I'm a single female in Florida. Any other single BK'd Floridians out there? Maybe we should meet!

hey, maybe so....

[floridian]

I would say something different if you told us that she is aware of the situation, yada yada..

But from your earlier post, you said that you haven't even told her about thinking of filing for BK?

Isn't that a little crazy? I mean, you won't tell her you want to file BK, but you want to get married?

How would she feel?I really don't mean any offense- i just think you should take a look at this from her perspective..

i have told her about the bk now....i hate to sound cold, but ive been around enough to know that love is throwing the the dice... dont get me wrong, i would like her, bk or no bk.....its just ironic, that two people caught up in bk would meet..

but at the moment, she needs a residence and i need a chap 7.. but to be honest, i would help out a person that was in forclosure.. i told her that if there is no romance, she is welcome to stay until her situation improves..

we both like cats, so thats a good start...

we are getting ready to go to daytona for the weekend and it will be just the two of us, so we can talk..
the downside, is that we both have strong personalities and that could spell conflict.. shes a leo and im an aries..

i know to some, this may sound like an irresponsible venture, but then so was letting my finances put me in ruin and ive always lived on the edge (in a responsible way).

[LuciluS]

Floridian:

I know you are a kind man.

Have fun in Daytona this week and ya never know what might happen

Luci

[floridian]

well, im back.... i cant wait for all the i told you so stuff.. well, i gave it my best, but too many complications..
so much for the chapter 7..

[Over our heads]

I'm sorry things couldn't work out.

[LuciluS]

O Floridian:

I am so sorry things didn't work out for you too. It just wasn't meant to be.
Maybe soon, the 'right' female will come along.

Hugs,

Luci

[floridian]

my lawyer told me that i was home free on the 7, using her as an expense....
i thought i could put up with anything for 6 months, but not...

there are worse things than being in debt!

[liz417]

Oh, sad to hear it didn't work out for you...

[justbroke]

Wow, floridian dude... sorry to hear! Really. I thought this was like a romance novel and the fairy tale of meeting a person...

[catleg]

Best of luck floridian. Hope the fling put a little spring in your step. Keep the faith. Eventually you'll figure out your chapter 7 escape path.

[floridian]

well, i went on match.com... one thing is obvious, when you are young, you can get by on your charm.. when you get old, you had better have money,,

the women there are looking for a chip n dale dancer who makes 6 figures... if i made 6 figures, do you think i would need to be on match.com? not!

i learned a long time ago, its all about the bucks... i used to ride motorcycles with a bunch of dentist and lawyers... when i would meet someone, they would assume i was one too...babes would be all over me, until they found out i was just a grunt and the game changed... such is life!

[catleg]

Yeah but really, you have to think like the doctors and lawyers, use those chicks and move on, nobody wants to get sucked into a relationship with those ho's/vampires anyway. I think if there was a chapter 7 singles mixer you'd actually meet some very nice people. Mabye even better if it was chapter 13's looking to hook up and make a 7.

[Amy26]

Hey... I've used match.com and there have been plenty of jerk off shallow men on there too... it goes both ways! I really hate dating though... I actually had to go to Denmark to find the perfect man for me... lol.

[floridian]

I think if there was a chapter 7 singles mixer you'd actually meet some very nice people. Mabye even better if it was chapter 13's looking to hook up and make a 7.

yep, i think you are on to a good idea..