I hate how many of these threads we see. It's not your fault, but you aren't supposed to know that. Our society breeds these perfect little consumers, it is supposed to work that way. Some don't quite become the perfect consumer on the one side, they pay off any debt before interest or fees accrue. The credit industry likes them the least (so what do you think our society pushes for?) Then there are people like us that try our best and give all the milk we can but there is never enough so we end up barren and bankrupt. The credit industry, believe it or not likes us best (that's why they create so many of us)! Oh sure we default and file bankruptcy, but on the whole we pay their bills. Relax! You were never meant to win in this game. They will write off your losses on their balance sheets and bank it either way.
What they do is immoral, what you do is your life and while they have no incentive to treat you virtuously (and believe me they don't), you have no incentive to ruin your own life. What is immoral about doing your best? Certainly life isn't about always winning!
These are the things that we do so that we can live, we don't live to do these things. The important things are family and friends, the rest comes out in the wash! We do our best, but you can't wear the same white shirt for a week without washing it, just isn't going to happen. Don't be depressed by the wash, it is a part of life.
Ask those of us that have been through it, it's rejuvenating!!! Best cure you'll ever find for depression is watching your bankruptcy close on Pacer and knowing that you still have everything that is really important to you, and it hasn't been compromised!!!
Keep your priorities in the right place, first your health, then that of your families, don't confuse your priorities just because someone else's are different. Keep them right and everything else will come out in the wash.
What they do is immoral, what you do is your life and while they have no incentive to treat you virtuously (and believe me they don't), you have no incentive to ruin your own life. What is immoral about doing your best? Certainly life isn't about always winning!
These are the things that we do so that we can live, we don't live to do these things. The important things are family and friends, the rest comes out in the wash! We do our best, but you can't wear the same white shirt for a week without washing it, just isn't going to happen. Don't be depressed by the wash, it is a part of life.
Ask those of us that have been through it, it's rejuvenating!!! Best cure you'll ever find for depression is watching your bankruptcy close on Pacer and knowing that you still have everything that is really important to you, and it hasn't been compromised!!!
Keep your priorities in the right place, first your health, then that of your families, don't confuse your priorities just because someone else's are different. Keep them right and everything else will come out in the wash.
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