So glad I found this forum!
Hi all, as many come here to for, I’ve found myself in a bad situation of poor choices, tragedies, and some sprinkled in bad luck. I’ve come to terms with being so underwater it’s not even funny, I kept that outlook of “if I could just get that one consolidation loan…” for a while, but no one wants to loan that amount of money, no matter if I can afford the payment and have never missed a payment on anything in my life.
Income: $1,168/week salary after health insurance and taxes.
Add’l Income: $300/month for caring for grandparents.
Car payment is $781/month ($37,000), I use it for commuting to day job. But also run a separate business using the car, it’s just breaking even at the moment, but the profit margins are looking high within the next 12 months.
I have (3) personal loans (remaining balances listed):
- $17,523 ($930/mo.)
- $13,640 ($311/mo.)
- $11,299 ($358/mo.)
I have (11) cards with balances:
- $15,867 ($450/mo.)
- $6,939 ($200/mo.)
- $4,958 ($120/mo.)
- $4,954 ($100/mo.)
- $4,864 ($100/mo.)
- $3,637 ($85/mo.)
- $3,504 ($70/mo.)
- $3,390 ($120/mo.)
- $3,104 ($100/mo.)
- $1,800 ($50/mo. 0% interest)
- $1,000 ($50/mo.)
- $500 ($50/mo.)
Monthly Expenses (avg): Gas, Groceries, Utilities, Streaming, etc.: ~$900
Storage: $430
I have no housing payment at the moment as I stay with my grandparents as their aid since my father passed in 2022.
I currently am engaged and planning to get married early next year.
I was in such a poor mind that even though I know exactly not to fall for debt settlement garbage, I got convinced in the moment. Luckily my rational mind has prevailed before my first payment was made and before I started not paying the accounts’ payments (they agreed to enroll for settlement only selected accounts which were the $17,523 and $11,299 loans plus the $15,867 and $4,954 cards) I'll be cancelling this this week.
I have been heavily weighing bankruptcy at this point as it’s before I am married at least, and having us use my fiancé’s credit score while I’m backing it with my income. My only other considering factor I’m worried about is that as I’m working to get my own business off the ground and continuing to grow, 1) I can’t be without my vehicle or an equivalent type as it relies on it. 2) any business lender either wants years of financial data for business lending or a personal guarantee based on my SSN vs my company’s EIN.
Any advice from people experienced would be immensely appreciated. I simply cannot do this anymore. I went from $30K in total debt in 2021 to this mess now and I see no end in sight let alone just getting ahead of it. Thank you!
Hi all, as many come here to for, I’ve found myself in a bad situation of poor choices, tragedies, and some sprinkled in bad luck. I’ve come to terms with being so underwater it’s not even funny, I kept that outlook of “if I could just get that one consolidation loan…” for a while, but no one wants to loan that amount of money, no matter if I can afford the payment and have never missed a payment on anything in my life.
Income: $1,168/week salary after health insurance and taxes.
Add’l Income: $300/month for caring for grandparents.
Car payment is $781/month ($37,000), I use it for commuting to day job. But also run a separate business using the car, it’s just breaking even at the moment, but the profit margins are looking high within the next 12 months.
I have (3) personal loans (remaining balances listed):
- $17,523 ($930/mo.)
- $13,640 ($311/mo.)
- $11,299 ($358/mo.)
I have (11) cards with balances:
- $15,867 ($450/mo.)
- $6,939 ($200/mo.)
- $4,958 ($120/mo.)
- $4,954 ($100/mo.)
- $4,864 ($100/mo.)
- $3,637 ($85/mo.)
- $3,504 ($70/mo.)
- $3,390 ($120/mo.)
- $3,104 ($100/mo.)
- $1,800 ($50/mo. 0% interest)
- $1,000 ($50/mo.)
- $500 ($50/mo.)
Monthly Expenses (avg): Gas, Groceries, Utilities, Streaming, etc.: ~$900
Storage: $430
I have no housing payment at the moment as I stay with my grandparents as their aid since my father passed in 2022.
I currently am engaged and planning to get married early next year.
I was in such a poor mind that even though I know exactly not to fall for debt settlement garbage, I got convinced in the moment. Luckily my rational mind has prevailed before my first payment was made and before I started not paying the accounts’ payments (they agreed to enroll for settlement only selected accounts which were the $17,523 and $11,299 loans plus the $15,867 and $4,954 cards) I'll be cancelling this this week.
I have been heavily weighing bankruptcy at this point as it’s before I am married at least, and having us use my fiancé’s credit score while I’m backing it with my income. My only other considering factor I’m worried about is that as I’m working to get my own business off the ground and continuing to grow, 1) I can’t be without my vehicle or an equivalent type as it relies on it. 2) any business lender either wants years of financial data for business lending or a personal guarantee based on my SSN vs my company’s EIN.
Any advice from people experienced would be immensely appreciated. I simply cannot do this anymore. I went from $30K in total debt in 2021 to this mess now and I see no end in sight let alone just getting ahead of it. Thank you!
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