Hello Everyone,
about 6 months ago a close friend of mine lost his job and I could tell would have a real problem getting on his feet. Age 57. His finances were a mess and it was inevitable that bankruptcy was in his future.
Anyway I offered him a place to stay and recommended he hide out for a while and let his debts age out so bankruptcy would be easier.
I had him change his address to a place in North Carolina that we found on the internet and gave his new employment as a bowling alley in Charlotte. He applied for a few credit cards with the new information and moved in.
He has received no contact from the 12 credit companies he owed money to. Over 100k and filed for bankruptcy last week.
He has had 6 months to get his life together and find some peace. he just finished a program to help him with a drinking problem and he seems to be doing well.
I can`t say this is a good strategy for everyone but it seems to me that once a person blows up they need to heal, and collection folks are well just trash. They do nothing but hurt people who have already been hurt enough.
There is a lot to be said for simply dropping off the matrix for a while, filing bankruptcy and getting on with life.
about 6 months ago a close friend of mine lost his job and I could tell would have a real problem getting on his feet. Age 57. His finances were a mess and it was inevitable that bankruptcy was in his future.
Anyway I offered him a place to stay and recommended he hide out for a while and let his debts age out so bankruptcy would be easier.
I had him change his address to a place in North Carolina that we found on the internet and gave his new employment as a bowling alley in Charlotte. He applied for a few credit cards with the new information and moved in.
He has received no contact from the 12 credit companies he owed money to. Over 100k and filed for bankruptcy last week.
He has had 6 months to get his life together and find some peace. he just finished a program to help him with a drinking problem and he seems to be doing well.
I can`t say this is a good strategy for everyone but it seems to me that once a person blows up they need to heal, and collection folks are well just trash. They do nothing but hurt people who have already been hurt enough.
There is a lot to be said for simply dropping off the matrix for a while, filing bankruptcy and getting on with life.
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