Posted on other board, but this might be of more interest here....
Ok so I had to let the credit union know we were filing because they were calling my mother...so I let them know & told them to contact attorney & gave them the info. Now get home yesterday to warrant in debt papers with court date, WTH! Are they trying to rush in & sue me before we file? I have already sent notice to attorney, but what do we do? The warrants are for the cc debt but my concern is DH's car is financed with them, only missed the 1 payt but 2nd payt coming due & we were told not to pay since it would be going in with BK & that would be paid that way.
I think it needs to be filed NOW>..we did get appraisal yesterday which came in for less than we owe on the 1st YAAY! So we can strip the 2nd if all goes well.
BUT...DH was offered a new job, which he would be a consultant & make considerably more (which don't get me wrong, of course is a good thing)...but if I now have to WAIT again until he starts, gets new paystubs, etc that puts us off at least another month & I just don't think we can wait that long. I have asked attorney if we are better to get filed now & then have to adjust payment when it comes to that. Waiting to hear back, very anxious & hoping for answers soon. DH is about to have a stroke, he doesn't understand any of this...it has been all up to me, the research, the appts, being here...he sees a warrant & is going off on me that it is a warrant to come ARREST us...why is this taking so long? This is a huge mistake...bla bla bla....I am ready to just run away...ughghhh! So stressful, and they wonder y I have ulcers? Really....
Ok so I had to let the credit union know we were filing because they were calling my mother...so I let them know & told them to contact attorney & gave them the info. Now get home yesterday to warrant in debt papers with court date, WTH! Are they trying to rush in & sue me before we file? I have already sent notice to attorney, but what do we do? The warrants are for the cc debt but my concern is DH's car is financed with them, only missed the 1 payt but 2nd payt coming due & we were told not to pay since it would be going in with BK & that would be paid that way.
I think it needs to be filed NOW>..we did get appraisal yesterday which came in for less than we owe on the 1st YAAY! So we can strip the 2nd if all goes well.
BUT...DH was offered a new job, which he would be a consultant & make considerably more (which don't get me wrong, of course is a good thing)...but if I now have to WAIT again until he starts, gets new paystubs, etc that puts us off at least another month & I just don't think we can wait that long. I have asked attorney if we are better to get filed now & then have to adjust payment when it comes to that. Waiting to hear back, very anxious & hoping for answers soon. DH is about to have a stroke, he doesn't understand any of this...it has been all up to me, the research, the appts, being here...he sees a warrant & is going off on me that it is a warrant to come ARREST us...why is this taking so long? This is a huge mistake...bla bla bla....I am ready to just run away...ughghhh! So stressful, and they wonder y I have ulcers? Really....
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