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I have read some posters here who were adamant about not talking to creditors because they'll just use the info against you.
I wish I had talked to them.
In my case I initially figured after I stopped paying that I'd soon be filing. And I didn't want to tell them that, and I didn't want to lie. And frankly, with about 12 of them it was easier to just unplug the phone.
What happened is that I discovered this forum and realized my quick filing plans (say on the 91st day after the last charge) were unrealistic when there were balance transfers and advances involved. All in all I went through 2 major shifts in strategy all the while not talking to lawyers until I had "learned all I can." (Yes I'm that kind of idiot.)
Anyway before you know it it's 90, 100, 105 days and Chase it threatening to sue (in writing) and I'm thinking maybe I SHOULD talk to them but first I go online and find that Amex has already sued.
I really think that a (true) story about no current income and a house that's underwater and trying to find income and an (embellished) story about hoping to avoid bankruptcy certainly would have yielded better results than getting sued just over 90 days after the first non-payment.
Having a judgment out there is either going to mess up the timing of my filing or make it very hard to plan and eat and retain an attorney as suddenly I won't be able to use the banking system.
It would have, in fact, been worth it to squeeze out some meager payments to them and keep the timing of everything under my control.
A lesson learned for the next one... good luck.
I have read some posters here who were adamant about not talking to creditors because they'll just use the info against you.
I wish I had talked to them.
In my case I initially figured after I stopped paying that I'd soon be filing. And I didn't want to tell them that, and I didn't want to lie. And frankly, with about 12 of them it was easier to just unplug the phone.
What happened is that I discovered this forum and realized my quick filing plans (say on the 91st day after the last charge) were unrealistic when there were balance transfers and advances involved. All in all I went through 2 major shifts in strategy all the while not talking to lawyers until I had "learned all I can." (Yes I'm that kind of idiot.)
Anyway before you know it it's 90, 100, 105 days and Chase it threatening to sue (in writing) and I'm thinking maybe I SHOULD talk to them but first I go online and find that Amex has already sued.
I really think that a (true) story about no current income and a house that's underwater and trying to find income and an (embellished) story about hoping to avoid bankruptcy certainly would have yielded better results than getting sued just over 90 days after the first non-payment.
Having a judgment out there is either going to mess up the timing of my filing or make it very hard to plan and eat and retain an attorney as suddenly I won't be able to use the banking system.
It would have, in fact, been worth it to squeeze out some meager payments to them and keep the timing of everything under my control.
A lesson learned for the next one... good luck.
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