It seems that my attorney and I are starting to see eye to eye on things and we can begin the filing process. This week has been a nightmare with me trying to *unhire* him and him telling me that he's keeping half of my fee for work done. I became concerned when I met with him on Feb. 11 and was asking for a discussion about reaffirming or not. We talked back and forth and he seemed quite adamant that I should reaffirm because if I didn't then the bank would simply have my stay lifted and start foreclosure. I mentioned that I had read a lot about how reaffirming might not be a good idea, and given my age, where God knows what could happen, and the economy the way it is, would that be in my best interest? He slapped his leg and said I don't have time for this *reading thing*! I'm your lawyer and I'm telling you that if you don't reaffirm, this and this will happen. I dropped it and went on to other things.
Once I got home and started to think things over, I became more concerned that he was absolutely wrong. I called back the next day and told the secretary to stop doing anything until I had a chance to talk to my kids first. However she told me that she had most of the paperwork already done, needed more information and to take my time.
I decided against him after a few days, thinking he didn't have my best interests and asked for my paperwork back and my fee. He replied to me that he'd give me slightly more than half of my money back because of the work done already. I did expect that I would pay something but no where near half! So I had to email him back and say that I would like an accounting of the work done and the charges and since he effectively stopped me from hiring another attorney, I needed some give and take on the reaffirmation until I was satisfied that I was making the best decision on the advice given.
Today I recieved another email from him and it was like a total 180 degree turn! He said that looking at my information tells him that it would not be in my best interest to reaffirm! (really?) Maybe he was afraid I would rat him out to the ARDC. And I wasn't trying to get him to agree with me, I just want the whole thing to be in my best interest.
So anyway, I did email him back and say we would proceed, I would not reaffirm and that I wanted to retain, pay and stay. Ball is in his park now.....
Once I got home and started to think things over, I became more concerned that he was absolutely wrong. I called back the next day and told the secretary to stop doing anything until I had a chance to talk to my kids first. However she told me that she had most of the paperwork already done, needed more information and to take my time.
I decided against him after a few days, thinking he didn't have my best interests and asked for my paperwork back and my fee. He replied to me that he'd give me slightly more than half of my money back because of the work done already. I did expect that I would pay something but no where near half! So I had to email him back and say that I would like an accounting of the work done and the charges and since he effectively stopped me from hiring another attorney, I needed some give and take on the reaffirmation until I was satisfied that I was making the best decision on the advice given.
Today I recieved another email from him and it was like a total 180 degree turn! He said that looking at my information tells him that it would not be in my best interest to reaffirm! (really?) Maybe he was afraid I would rat him out to the ARDC. And I wasn't trying to get him to agree with me, I just want the whole thing to be in my best interest.
So anyway, I did email him back and say we would proceed, I would not reaffirm and that I wanted to retain, pay and stay. Ball is in his park now.....
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