A little background first: I borrowed quite a bit of money from my sister in law, who also happens to be my boss beginning around September 2009. Without looking it up, I believe it was approximately 13k. This was used as a down payment on a house, closing costs, a down payment on a car, paying off a small line of credit, and replacing my AC when it died 6 months after moving in (ugh). In any event, I finally paid her back in full about two months ago. I was thrilled, because a) she was paid off, and b) because now my waiting period could begin should I decide to file chapter 7 down the line, which unfortunately is a very likely scenario. Before I get criticized for the spending above, let me just say this was all done before my credit cards jacked up my interest rates and cut my spending limits, and that at the time I was paying more than the minimums every month. The mortgage payment was less than my rent and it was also an investment, and the car was necessary as the one I had was falling apart with well over 100k on it and was costing me far too much to maintain. The line of credit needed to be paid off in order to get through underwriting for the mortgage, and the ac, well, that wasn't supposed to die for a few years, lol.
Anyway, I took my dog to the vet last week and she needs surgery on her thyroid. I have since let all but one of my credit cards go (and that one only gets me about $100/month), and I have about $6 dollars in my bank acct until payday, and most of that is already promised to different bills and food/utilities, etc. My sister in law has agreed to lend me the money if I need, but I really don't want to go that route for two reasons. A) I hate borrowing money -- it just reminds me that I'm a financial failure all over again, plus I have to pay it back (there's a large part of me that feels a creditor is way different than a friend!), and B) then the waiting period has to start all over again.
Here is what I wondering: I get a yearly vacation from work, with the option to work it and collect the money instead. I believe my boss will let me have it early, so I was thinking maybe I can get the business to pay the vet directly instead of giving me a vacation or check. That way I wouldn't have to borrow any money or pay any back so long as the vet bill is less than my vacation check would be (and supposedly it should be). Additionally, I'd normally get it in July and by then I could likely be facing one or more lawsuits from my creditors, so this way it keeps those funds safe, stops me from having to borrow money, and hopefully keeps my dog healthy. I think from the outside looking in, that should be fine. However, what I'm wondering about is could doing this potentially cause any issues for me down the line either with getting sued by my creditors prior to BK or while filing BK since I guess it could possibly look like I did something fishy with the money that I traditionally get each year, but magically stopped receiving when I started getting sued?
If for some reason this is a horrible idea, I could wait until the end of next month to do it, since I get paid 3x in April, so there's an "extra" check, but I really don't want to push this off a day longer than I have to for obvious reasons.
Any thoughts would be appreciated!
Thanks,
Mike
Anyway, I took my dog to the vet last week and she needs surgery on her thyroid. I have since let all but one of my credit cards go (and that one only gets me about $100/month), and I have about $6 dollars in my bank acct until payday, and most of that is already promised to different bills and food/utilities, etc. My sister in law has agreed to lend me the money if I need, but I really don't want to go that route for two reasons. A) I hate borrowing money -- it just reminds me that I'm a financial failure all over again, plus I have to pay it back (there's a large part of me that feels a creditor is way different than a friend!), and B) then the waiting period has to start all over again.
Here is what I wondering: I get a yearly vacation from work, with the option to work it and collect the money instead. I believe my boss will let me have it early, so I was thinking maybe I can get the business to pay the vet directly instead of giving me a vacation or check. That way I wouldn't have to borrow any money or pay any back so long as the vet bill is less than my vacation check would be (and supposedly it should be). Additionally, I'd normally get it in July and by then I could likely be facing one or more lawsuits from my creditors, so this way it keeps those funds safe, stops me from having to borrow money, and hopefully keeps my dog healthy. I think from the outside looking in, that should be fine. However, what I'm wondering about is could doing this potentially cause any issues for me down the line either with getting sued by my creditors prior to BK or while filing BK since I guess it could possibly look like I did something fishy with the money that I traditionally get each year, but magically stopped receiving when I started getting sued?
If for some reason this is a horrible idea, I could wait until the end of next month to do it, since I get paid 3x in April, so there's an "extra" check, but I really don't want to push this off a day longer than I have to for obvious reasons.
Any thoughts would be appreciated!
Thanks,
Mike
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