well....although we were upside-down at the time of surrendering the house 2 years ago...not quite to the extent it is today...how's this for being in the hole(-350,000 presently), we were not thinking straight when we attempted loan modification and jumped through hoops in attempt to save the black mold, the flooding, the cracked foundation, the new septic the house needed, the new roof the house needed, the new 10k fence it needed....i can go ON and ON and ON until tomorrow....i'm certain you get the point.
i was devastated....the home i had raised my children in....never late in 33 years....we were in loan mod...patiently awaiting the answer....
we finally had to sit down and look at this situation in black and white, what to do in the BEST interest for ourselves? a new concept.......and as we were doing exactly that we got hit with with NOT the answer to our loan mod application....but a knock on the front door and a man there with a NICE summons of foreclosure. (TRUE story!)
once again...we had to sit...PUT THE (or my) EMOTIONS aside...(rather difficult many times for a woman as we many times; and as much as i really HATE to admit it, are someone impulsive and have a tendency not always; but on occasion; to let our emotions, oh this REALLY hurts, get the best of us and let them interfere with some of our decision making) I DID NOT JUST WRITE THAT?? did i?
the logically and best financial decision we ever made, was to have left that house and it's terrible troubles behind.
gman is so correct...who needs it? we had so much upkeep we were killing ourselves and not getting any younger. and things were just getting more and more expensive.
we actually did move out on our own terms....we just made a financial decision and stuck to it.
now....fast forward to 2.10 years later...i spoke to chase AGAIN this morning offering them a warranty deed and general release or to PLEASE foreclosure and put the property up for sheriff's sale so we can remove our names off the deed....once again they didn't even know what that was.
but i had to crack up because we have this watchdog government "task" force team trying to supposedly help us get this done and they called this morning...saying oh...yes, chase is willing to do a quit claim deed...blah blah blah...i said really....well why would they do THAT....it will not help them clear the title...call back when you have some REAL info...although...tell chase i'll sign it, if they send it!!
final JOKE...chase ask me this morning, and, although the house was surrendered .....and has been vacate for 2 years...if we would consider another loan mod...ARE YOU NUTs....they said they'd get back to me!
i was devastated....the home i had raised my children in....never late in 33 years....we were in loan mod...patiently awaiting the answer....
we finally had to sit down and look at this situation in black and white, what to do in the BEST interest for ourselves? a new concept.......and as we were doing exactly that we got hit with with NOT the answer to our loan mod application....but a knock on the front door and a man there with a NICE summons of foreclosure. (TRUE story!)
once again...we had to sit...PUT THE (or my) EMOTIONS aside...(rather difficult many times for a woman as we many times; and as much as i really HATE to admit it, are someone impulsive and have a tendency not always; but on occasion; to let our emotions, oh this REALLY hurts, get the best of us and let them interfere with some of our decision making) I DID NOT JUST WRITE THAT?? did i?
the logically and best financial decision we ever made, was to have left that house and it's terrible troubles behind.
gman is so correct...who needs it? we had so much upkeep we were killing ourselves and not getting any younger. and things were just getting more and more expensive.
we actually did move out on our own terms....we just made a financial decision and stuck to it.
now....fast forward to 2.10 years later...i spoke to chase AGAIN this morning offering them a warranty deed and general release or to PLEASE foreclosure and put the property up for sheriff's sale so we can remove our names off the deed....once again they didn't even know what that was.
but i had to crack up because we have this watchdog government "task" force team trying to supposedly help us get this done and they called this morning...saying oh...yes, chase is willing to do a quit claim deed...blah blah blah...i said really....well why would they do THAT....it will not help them clear the title...call back when you have some REAL info...although...tell chase i'll sign it, if they send it!!
final JOKE...chase ask me this morning, and, although the house was surrendered .....and has been vacate for 2 years...if we would consider another loan mod...ARE YOU NUTs....they said they'd get back to me!
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