I met with my second lawyer today, and I'm still baffled by this. I live with my girlfriend. The mortgage is in her name. We split all utilities, the mortgage payment, food, cable, ect in half. I'm responsible for my own debt, and she's responsible for her own debt. What part of her income exactly is counted towards household income? The lawyer wanted an average paystub of hers to get an estimate of her income.
In other words, I live in PA. I make less than $30,000 a year. The median for a 1 person household is $44,396, so I'd be ok there. She makes a little less than me. Let's say $27,000, which brings us both up to $57,000. The median on a 2 person household in PA is $53,572, so I fail that part of the means test if her entire income is counted towards the household income.
I took the means test on legalconsumer.com, and the only option I had was to file "unmarried", so I couldn't include her expenses, even though I had to choose "2 person household". So I have to deal with a 2 person median, without being able to deduct a second person's expenses, because we're not married.
What am I missing here? The lawyer explained it, and what I got out of it was that it's either her contribution towards the household expenses that count as household income, or whatever money she has left after her own expenses that count as household income. But, even after telling him how much she made, he still mentioned things like having me buy a car to bring up my monthly expenses or reducing my OT to temporarily bring down my yearly income (which would mean waiting until the end of November to file, since I have to help cover peoples vacations over the summer).
Other than this whole median headache I actually did like this lawyer. My parents used him in '03 or '04, and he got them out of the convoluted mess they were in.
In other words, I live in PA. I make less than $30,000 a year. The median for a 1 person household is $44,396, so I'd be ok there. She makes a little less than me. Let's say $27,000, which brings us both up to $57,000. The median on a 2 person household in PA is $53,572, so I fail that part of the means test if her entire income is counted towards the household income.
I took the means test on legalconsumer.com, and the only option I had was to file "unmarried", so I couldn't include her expenses, even though I had to choose "2 person household". So I have to deal with a 2 person median, without being able to deduct a second person's expenses, because we're not married.
What am I missing here? The lawyer explained it, and what I got out of it was that it's either her contribution towards the household expenses that count as household income, or whatever money she has left after her own expenses that count as household income. But, even after telling him how much she made, he still mentioned things like having me buy a car to bring up my monthly expenses or reducing my OT to temporarily bring down my yearly income (which would mean waiting until the end of November to file, since I have to help cover peoples vacations over the summer).
Other than this whole median headache I actually did like this lawyer. My parents used him in '03 or '04, and he got them out of the convoluted mess they were in.
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