I will keep this as brief as possible but as detailed.
I have been in therapy for 9 months now for compulsive gambling on Welbutrin for 3 weeks as well. It has been very hard.. But with the help of my wife and family I have not gambled in over 8 months..
Back in Jan of 05, I amassed a total credit card debit of 53k perhaps half in balance transfer checks made out to myself and deposited into my checking account. The other half spent at the casino but not showing as a cash advices only as internet purchases. I have paid on all 6 accounts on time and the full minimum payment for 6 months without putting any new charges on any of them.. However my mortgage just was raised $350 per month and I am no longer getting overtime and the credit card payments are not something I can make anymore... and keep a roof over my families head.
I live in Illinois
Asses ts are my home which I moved into in June of 2004. Amount owed on the home is $198k Resale is about $218K.. There is a Special Assessment attached to the property by the city in the amount of $23k which is basically a loan through the city which has to be repaid over 20 years, the put in the infrastructure in the sub-division instead of the builder.. This amount was not financed into my home loan just a note I had to sign at closing to acknowledge the debit and lean on property. I am not sure if this is taken into account when determining equity.
2003 Dodge Durango.. Amount owed $23K Blue book Value $13K
No large saving account and I have a 401K with $2500
Home loan payment is $1225 Never been late
HELOC payment is $253 Never been late
Car note is $575 Never been late
Plus..Food, electricity, and other essentials..
My weekly take home is $645
That is it for assets..
I did lie on my credit card applications about my yearly earnings.. I make about 50k a year and I was putting down 80k...I am afraid this will be used to show fraud or something of that nature which I read about on some BK board..
These cards had been maxed out before to the sum of $40k and I had paid off the debit with money taken from a real estate deal..Then slipped back into the gambling..
Does it sound like I am a candidate for Chapter 7 ??
Trust me folks, this is a very shameful time in my life.. Bk is my last resort and one I would not take at all if not for my family.. I believe in people paying for their mistakes.. But I can not make my family pay for mine and put them in the gutter.. Hence the BK 7..
I appreciate all of your time and input..
Here is my basic plan... I have closed my checking account and have been added to my wife's checking account. This is for two reason.. One, I can not be in control of money for obvious reasons.. Two.. To not have to show all those large cash transactions through my checking account to the courts.. I am going to make small payments nothing near the minimum on some cards for a couple more months.. Total payments on all cards is over 2k a month.. Which is not something I can do any longer.. Then I am going to stop paying.. This will go on until Jan 07.. By this time I am sure cards would have been charged off or I will be getting sued by this point.. At this point I will file BK giving it well over a year since my last charge on the card.. and having over a year attached to my wife's checking account..I know I have messed up my finances really bad.. But I figure if I am going to claim BK to save my home, I might as well make sure I make it as painless as possible.
Thanks again
I have been in therapy for 9 months now for compulsive gambling on Welbutrin for 3 weeks as well. It has been very hard.. But with the help of my wife and family I have not gambled in over 8 months..
Back in Jan of 05, I amassed a total credit card debit of 53k perhaps half in balance transfer checks made out to myself and deposited into my checking account. The other half spent at the casino but not showing as a cash advices only as internet purchases. I have paid on all 6 accounts on time and the full minimum payment for 6 months without putting any new charges on any of them.. However my mortgage just was raised $350 per month and I am no longer getting overtime and the credit card payments are not something I can make anymore... and keep a roof over my families head.
I live in Illinois
Asses ts are my home which I moved into in June of 2004. Amount owed on the home is $198k Resale is about $218K.. There is a Special Assessment attached to the property by the city in the amount of $23k which is basically a loan through the city which has to be repaid over 20 years, the put in the infrastructure in the sub-division instead of the builder.. This amount was not financed into my home loan just a note I had to sign at closing to acknowledge the debit and lean on property. I am not sure if this is taken into account when determining equity.
2003 Dodge Durango.. Amount owed $23K Blue book Value $13K
No large saving account and I have a 401K with $2500
Home loan payment is $1225 Never been late
HELOC payment is $253 Never been late
Car note is $575 Never been late
Plus..Food, electricity, and other essentials..
My weekly take home is $645
That is it for assets..
I did lie on my credit card applications about my yearly earnings.. I make about 50k a year and I was putting down 80k...I am afraid this will be used to show fraud or something of that nature which I read about on some BK board..
These cards had been maxed out before to the sum of $40k and I had paid off the debit with money taken from a real estate deal..Then slipped back into the gambling..
Does it sound like I am a candidate for Chapter 7 ??
Trust me folks, this is a very shameful time in my life.. Bk is my last resort and one I would not take at all if not for my family.. I believe in people paying for their mistakes.. But I can not make my family pay for mine and put them in the gutter.. Hence the BK 7..
I appreciate all of your time and input..
Here is my basic plan... I have closed my checking account and have been added to my wife's checking account. This is for two reason.. One, I can not be in control of money for obvious reasons.. Two.. To not have to show all those large cash transactions through my checking account to the courts.. I am going to make small payments nothing near the minimum on some cards for a couple more months.. Total payments on all cards is over 2k a month.. Which is not something I can do any longer.. Then I am going to stop paying.. This will go on until Jan 07.. By this time I am sure cards would have been charged off or I will be getting sued by this point.. At this point I will file BK giving it well over a year since my last charge on the card.. and having over a year attached to my wife's checking account..I know I have messed up my finances really bad.. But I figure if I am going to claim BK to save my home, I might as well make sure I make it as painless as possible.
Thanks again
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