Please answer this ASAP!!

[mac1357]

Thank you all for helping me. You know how rough this process can be! I am calming down. Should I call a lawyer on Monday? I still don't really know how to find one. How do you know who is good? I don't know anyone who filed BK.

[AngelinaCatHub]

OK DH is off to get the letter. I am going to read the thread on how to pick a lawyer. This Sunday is the one year mark for the worst most stressful year of my life. My sister died, DH's sister died (both very young and sudden). I had cancer, DD was severly burned and in ICU the same week that I was in surgery for cancer and the busness fell apart. This year can't possibly be worse, right? I told DH that I am celebrating my new year on Januuary 31st and Looking at February first as new years day. I survived and we are going to work to make this business survive.

First to Ohiofiler, I concede. The Op did not make it clear or I misread it to be a certified letter. In our County, nothing is filed. Only the results.

To our Host, 'mac1357', yes, you have lived the life of Jobe. I feel badly for you and a lessor person would give up. You are making a worthy effort at recovery. Many of us have had (to each person it is disaster) similar problems. We were most fortunate not to have deaths in our family but, the big C was with us, Mrs. fell from the tub and broke her arm and leg. We lost all of our savings (except a Trust that is irrevocable) and are living far below what we did.

The thing is, it is over, we are recovering, and we are much happier than when we were "well heeled" and did not need to account for everything. There is much to be said about poverty. It isn't all bad. Your values change and become less materialistic. Not to say "things" aren't nice, but "things" are only "things". The values are, family, health, and home. Makes a big difference when you owe no person. 'Hub