Urgently need some sound advice, filing monday and very worried.Please read!

[worriedbker]

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Thanks you guys for all your input my attny filed today, we will see what happens!

[shabam]

I wish you the best of luck but quite a few posters raised a number of crucial points.

On a side note, not that I am judging but paying for a girlfriends child to attend private school does raise an eyebrow. Particularly if the kids biological parents are not paying for it. A don't believe a court would side with you on that expense.

[Chowder]

Thanks you guys for all your input my attny filed today, we will see what happens!

Good luck.

Hopefully you've chosen a seasoned Attorney. Many have a pretty good grasp on what flies and what wont.

[justbroke]

Please don't take anything I posted as being too strong. I want you to understand what types of questions may be asked. If you're lucky... they won't dig into these expenses.

Please come back and let us know how you do.

[pcn]

FWIW, per our atty, if the minor child is not claimed as a dependent on another's taxes you may be able to claim him/her in the means test if you provide support. What's the chance you are "common law married"? Here is AL it can happen scarily fast.