Bank took $1100 out of my checking account

[debtmonster]

It really gets old....

YOU are getting old. Get lost.

[Amy26]

LOL... top notch come back. ;)

[music12]

ok, people, everybody's opinions aside, please leave DM alone. i used to say everything i thought in a direct manner to someone's face. i then learned that it often causes more grief than it does any good. plus there is that possibility out there that i might be wrong. everybody gets to choose what to post here, and just because it might seem to some that DM changes his story, that's his prerogative if that's really the case, though i believe that there must be more to the story and if we all had the full picture of his story, it would make sense.

so really, we can help each other only based on what is being posted. one poster's negative opinion about another poster really has no place on this forum. it's supposed to be a safe haven for everybody, not everybody except DM.

so please let it go, ok? DM has more than enough to deal with.

[BkinTX]

I like DM.

He is entertaining.

[hereforinfo]

ok, people, everybody's opinions aside, please leave DM alone. i used to say everything i thought in a direct manner to someone's face. i then learned that it often causes more grief than it does any good. plus there is that possibility out there that i might be wrong. everybody gets to choose what to post here, and just because it might seem to some that DM changes his story, that's his prerogative if that's really the case, though i believe that there must be more to the story and if we all had the full picture of his story, it would make sense.

so really, we can help each other only based on what is being posted. one poster's negative opinion about another poster really has no place on this forum. it's supposed to be a safe haven for everybody, not everybody except DM.

so please let it go, ok? DM has more than enough to deal with.

How can you say that everyone gets to choose what to post here, then tell us to stop posting stuff to DM? If he's going to post what he wants, he has to accept the fact that everyone else is going to do the same and he may not like our replies.

[debtmonster]

I can't believe that I make ONE SINGLE POST at the end and the thread gets closed. Now tons of people are sitting here bashing me and not one single moderator has stepped in and done a god damned thing. This is (more foul language deleted).

[Amy26]

Music, I agree with what you are saying. However, I don't feel (at least what I wrote) was "bashing" DM and I don't really care if he changes his story or what he says about his affairs. What I care about is how he treats others. We already had one other instance in another thread which resulted in some action.

This forum is supposed to be safe for all, which means DM needs to adhere to that too. For him to, as I said in my last post, post judgements on other people and TELL THEM what they should be doing per his opinions is not appropriate and then complain about similar things in his own situation.

There is a difference between saying something like: Oh my God you are insane for doing that! Or it personally offends me when I hear you say this/do this! And saying: personally, I could never see myself paying that much...etc etc...

And as I also said... he is free to bash and judge everyone else on their lifestyles etc...but as soon as the table is turned he cries wolf? I'm sorry but that is just not right.

[want2save]

Hmmmm, interesting way to start the day with my coffee and DM...................I prefer the more constructive, informative posts myself :-)

[music12]

i am just saying that some of the posts were not pleasant or constructive or helpful to anyone. wouldn't it be better for everyone if such posts were avoided? if a poster says "leave me alone" (or something like that), then he should be left alone.

[Amy26]

Sure, that is reasonable. However, this case is not just an innocent bystander asking to be left alone.

It doesn't matter, the problem has been resolved.

[lovebirds]

Banned again?

[BassBoy]

The disruption of this thread has been dealt with. Let's get the thread back on topic.