I also thought we'd have sooooo much money. The mortgage on my house was almost 2k a month, I had at least 1.5k in credit card debt per month and I was paying 700 a month to live in my friends house (cause we have renters in my home). Then a car payment, insurance, groceries, home things, travel etc... So, when we stopped paying everything I thought we'd be rolling in money.
But then the lawyer told us we could go ahead and get own place to live (and to spend a lot on it!) so we did that... and now that we're living strictly on cash it seems like there is never enough. We have/had like no household items whatsoever... I moved to another country and then got laid off overseas and had to come back... so, had no money to bring my stuff back with me. Pretty much just the clothes on my back.
So, now we're struggling just to buy a vacuum cleaner... lol. We had to pay the lawyer for this and a lawyer for my husband's US immigration... my cat had to go to the vet last week, so that was 133 dollars.
When I was using credit it was just so easy to overlook the things you were charging. Like having emergency vet bills or a flat tire or just stuff you don't think that you are spending on when you use credit cards.
So, we're having a hard time adjusting to this and also trying to buy ourselves some furniture and household stuff.
In summary to a long winded post, you may "think" you will have lots of money left over... but really when you start living cash only you become sooooo much more aware of the things you need/want to buy.
But then the lawyer told us we could go ahead and get own place to live (and to spend a lot on it!) so we did that... and now that we're living strictly on cash it seems like there is never enough. We have/had like no household items whatsoever... I moved to another country and then got laid off overseas and had to come back... so, had no money to bring my stuff back with me. Pretty much just the clothes on my back.
So, now we're struggling just to buy a vacuum cleaner... lol. We had to pay the lawyer for this and a lawyer for my husband's US immigration... my cat had to go to the vet last week, so that was 133 dollars.
When I was using credit it was just so easy to overlook the things you were charging. Like having emergency vet bills or a flat tire or just stuff you don't think that you are spending on when you use credit cards.
So, we're having a hard time adjusting to this and also trying to buy ourselves some furniture and household stuff.
In summary to a long winded post, you may "think" you will have lots of money left over... but really when you start living cash only you become sooooo much more aware of the things you need/want to buy.
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