Hello all,
I've been lurking here for the past few months while I filled out pro se paperwork for DH and myself. You've been very helpful. This is kind of complicated, so please bear with me...
TMobile-
We filed in the morning on Tuesday (6/16) and Tmobile shut off our phone service today (Friday). We have some disputed charges (they made a mistake when we modified our plan), but I called and told them I would pay the charges I wasn't disputing (I had that amount budgeted to pay them anyway.) They told me they wouldn't even give me a partial credit for the disputed charges and they wanted the full amount.
At this point I tried to negotiate with them, and told them I had filed bankruptcy, and they could either get the amount I was willing to pay them (my standard monthly fee) or I would include them in the BK and they would get nothing. It's probably more budget friendly for me to be on prepaid anyway.
In the meantime, while I was negotiating on the line, DH, trying to be helpful and get phone service back, called them and agreed to pay the full amount. They dropped negotiations with me immediately. They turned the phone service back on. Once DH and I were on the phone, I informed him that there isn't enough money in the bank to pay that amount.
He called them back and told them that, but they said they couldn't do anything about the payment - that it was already set to go through. When he got off the phone with them, they shut off our service again! Even though they are planning on withdrawing the money from our account! Then he called back and said that we were protected under the automatic stay, and they said they had no notes that I had told them about the BK when I called earlier that day - so we were SOL. I told two different agents about it!
GMAC -
Way behind on this car, got a really bad deal and owe 18k and it's only worth 9k. Plan to surrender it in BK. DH, got a phone call from GMAC and they were really abusive to him, he tried to set up a surrender and the woman just kept yelling at him to tell her where the car was so they could repo it. When he gave her the case number she said since she hadn't yet received written notification of the BK she was gong to make sure it was repo'd. She kept yelling so he hung up on her.
My understanding was the automatic stay went into effect the minute you filed, and that verbal notification was all that we need to give these people until they receive notice. Both TMobile and GMAC stated they could do whatever they wanted to us until they received written notice from the court. Is that true?
Today was a really bad day for me, after all those weeks of slogging through the paperwork and I've been so stoic, and today I just felt like it was all worth nothing if they can keep harassing us so I just broke down and sobbed.
Does it get better eventually?
I've been lurking here for the past few months while I filled out pro se paperwork for DH and myself. You've been very helpful. This is kind of complicated, so please bear with me...
TMobile-
We filed in the morning on Tuesday (6/16) and Tmobile shut off our phone service today (Friday). We have some disputed charges (they made a mistake when we modified our plan), but I called and told them I would pay the charges I wasn't disputing (I had that amount budgeted to pay them anyway.) They told me they wouldn't even give me a partial credit for the disputed charges and they wanted the full amount.
At this point I tried to negotiate with them, and told them I had filed bankruptcy, and they could either get the amount I was willing to pay them (my standard monthly fee) or I would include them in the BK and they would get nothing. It's probably more budget friendly for me to be on prepaid anyway.
In the meantime, while I was negotiating on the line, DH, trying to be helpful and get phone service back, called them and agreed to pay the full amount. They dropped negotiations with me immediately. They turned the phone service back on. Once DH and I were on the phone, I informed him that there isn't enough money in the bank to pay that amount.
He called them back and told them that, but they said they couldn't do anything about the payment - that it was already set to go through. When he got off the phone with them, they shut off our service again! Even though they are planning on withdrawing the money from our account! Then he called back and said that we were protected under the automatic stay, and they said they had no notes that I had told them about the BK when I called earlier that day - so we were SOL. I told two different agents about it!
GMAC -
Way behind on this car, got a really bad deal and owe 18k and it's only worth 9k. Plan to surrender it in BK. DH, got a phone call from GMAC and they were really abusive to him, he tried to set up a surrender and the woman just kept yelling at him to tell her where the car was so they could repo it. When he gave her the case number she said since she hadn't yet received written notification of the BK she was gong to make sure it was repo'd. She kept yelling so he hung up on her.
My understanding was the automatic stay went into effect the minute you filed, and that verbal notification was all that we need to give these people until they receive notice. Both TMobile and GMAC stated they could do whatever they wanted to us until they received written notice from the court. Is that true?
Today was a really bad day for me, after all those weeks of slogging through the paperwork and I've been so stoic, and today I just felt like it was all worth nothing if they can keep harassing us so I just broke down and sobbed.
Does it get better eventually?
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