Asking HHM

[runforcover]

I respect everyone's answer here. But I am so confused as to what I should do. To avoid posting repeat info, I would direct you to this thread started by runforcover. My questions are in a few posts in the thread. As are my concerns. If you have a few minutes, would you share your expert opinions.

http://www.bkforum.com/showthread.php?p=282322#post282322

Mainly, it is the 3rd post from runforcover

[runforcover]

Asking hhm...again

Well, now it is the 4th post that has my biggest need for answers. But if you would briefly review all "runforcover" posts in that thread, maybe you could, once and for all, give me some options. If ya do...THANX HHM.
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