Screwed/any ideas?

[AngelinaCat]

Yeah, we are having to pay the trustee extra for some things we did, that we should not have done--didn't know until after the fact.

And you have a divorce coming up......

As I said earlier, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers~~~

[TEW]

if you've already file it's fine. its just like a bonus and that's been talked about here before.

[Tromploi]

Thank you Cat. I read your and your Hub's post with great anticipation. Please pray for my boys,,,,they will need it.

[OhioFiler]

I have posted before I am also getting a divorce, so I have such bigger fish to fry. My boys, 14 and 11, don't even know yet. I still have to break their hearts and tell them soon. Money seems very low on the list right now.

BK and divorce are an awful lot to deal with at one time. Obviously, I don't know your relationship details but I hope after the BK the 2 of you might consider a fresh start in your marriage as well. Money issues are the #1 issue couples argue over. With that problem erased maybe you'll see each other in an improved light!

God bless you and your children.

[Tromploi]

Thanks for the support and kind words.

I sure wish, and if it were up to me I'd stay here forever. I did say till death right? But husband is checked out and done. He doesn't want to try, "doesn't see the point". And believe me I am trying, to the point of almost embarrassing now. But, apparently, I am not worth fighting for. Almost 20yrs of sacrifices and commitment on my part, and he gets to unilaterally decide he wants a new life. Neat. One thing's for sure, once he makes up his mind about something......

He is 48 and I am 38, so life's not over yet. I have my boys, and my dogs who fill me up. I will endure.