(please read "executory contract" post prior to this if ur not fimiliar)
Soooo...
I decided based upon my research that I was not going to dispute the whole "is this a stipend or not" in court, as my chances of winning would have been slim. I decided my best option was damage control, I decided to go talk to "tiger lady" (the boss) and convince her that my bankruptcy has nothing to do with them, because it effectively does not. The reason I would do this is because I thought they may send thier lawyers to my 341 or just try and muck up the BK in general. BIG mistake on my part.
I severely overestimated/misjudged these people. After I sat down and explained to them that I was filing, and had to include them because it was my legal duty to disclose everything, she looked at me and said. "so what ur saying is you filed bankruptcy and wont pay us back?" So I explained again. Still she didnt get it, so she asked, "are you going to work here?", I said "that was the plan" (small deception), she said, "well if you dont are you gonna pay us back?"
It was about then that I began to feel nauseous (do you see what I was thinking yet?) I told her "of course, its probably not dischargable even if I wanted it to be "(big mistake number 2). I told her also if she was still concerned she hould contact her lawyer to verify what I was saying (mistake 3). As soon as I left I contacted the operator for the agency (future would be employer) and asked to be connected to the lawyer, they gave my the number for an outside firm. When I called this firm they informed me that they dont handle the contracts THE TIGER LADY DOES!
Dont you see! If I wouldnt have went there I bet dollars to donuts it would be a "de facto" discharge of this debt. That is to say, if the person in charge of the contracts does not realize they cannot be discharged, and believes they were discharged in BK, and thus never tries to collect, it is discharged!
Seems I may have out-thunk myself on this one.
1) Do you think my appraisal of the siuation may be accurate?
2) What next?
I was considering calling her back and saying, nevermind I decided to include you in the bankruptcy!
(HHM this is mostly towards you as youve been very knowledgable in this, I only wish I had asked everyone on the forum if I should go talk to her before I did, maybe someone would have talked me out of it, but then again I would have never known about this situation had I not have gone in to her office)
Soooo...
I decided based upon my research that I was not going to dispute the whole "is this a stipend or not" in court, as my chances of winning would have been slim. I decided my best option was damage control, I decided to go talk to "tiger lady" (the boss) and convince her that my bankruptcy has nothing to do with them, because it effectively does not. The reason I would do this is because I thought they may send thier lawyers to my 341 or just try and muck up the BK in general. BIG mistake on my part.
I severely overestimated/misjudged these people. After I sat down and explained to them that I was filing, and had to include them because it was my legal duty to disclose everything, she looked at me and said. "so what ur saying is you filed bankruptcy and wont pay us back?" So I explained again. Still she didnt get it, so she asked, "are you going to work here?", I said "that was the plan" (small deception), she said, "well if you dont are you gonna pay us back?"
It was about then that I began to feel nauseous (do you see what I was thinking yet?) I told her "of course, its probably not dischargable even if I wanted it to be "(big mistake number 2). I told her also if she was still concerned she hould contact her lawyer to verify what I was saying (mistake 3). As soon as I left I contacted the operator for the agency (future would be employer) and asked to be connected to the lawyer, they gave my the number for an outside firm. When I called this firm they informed me that they dont handle the contracts THE TIGER LADY DOES!
Dont you see! If I wouldnt have went there I bet dollars to donuts it would be a "de facto" discharge of this debt. That is to say, if the person in charge of the contracts does not realize they cannot be discharged, and believes they were discharged in BK, and thus never tries to collect, it is discharged!
Seems I may have out-thunk myself on this one.
1) Do you think my appraisal of the siuation may be accurate?
2) What next?
I was considering calling her back and saying, nevermind I decided to include you in the bankruptcy!
(HHM this is mostly towards you as youve been very knowledgable in this, I only wish I had asked everyone on the forum if I should go talk to her before I did, maybe someone would have talked me out of it, but then again I would have never known about this situation had I not have gone in to her office)
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