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    Patience is a virtue... and one I appear to lack!

    I was doing so well at keeping myself together waiting out the 60 days. But the closer the 60 day deadline gets, the more my stomach gets into knots. It's silly of course, there's absolutely no way anyone will object, they don't have a leg to stand on. The Trustee pretty much told us at the 341 that he was closing the case as a no-asset and that was it. It's just waiting out the objection period. Status in pacer says, "Awaiting discharge". It's all going to be fine, we are going to get the clean slate, and yet, the closer we get to April 25th the more impatient and nervous I get!

    Maybe it's the stress of finding a place to live. We have an agreement with the mortgage company to be out by May 1st... and that is freaking me out. I just have to keep reminding myself. Patience is a virtue. Wish I had more of it!

    #2
    Best wishes, kl030505...

    I hope you're able to find a place to live and that April 25 passes uneventfully. :

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      #3
      You're doing great if you've already been through the worst of it and now you're just waiting out the 60 days. I have one of the most complicated cases on this site and I've been feeling like you do right now for about 4 months. Find something to take your mind off of it and just remember that it will be over soon. (I know easier said than done, right?)
      Filed Chapter 7 (Primarily Business Expenses) 04/10/2008 FICO 468 :cry:
      341 on 05/06/08:unsure:House appraisal on day 63:blink: 07/10/2008 Discharged-Asset Case!!!:yahoo:08/09 Transu 559, Equifax 636, Experian 647
      Case Closed 07/15/2009 :D:yahoo:

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        #4
        So when will Pacer say awaiting discharge? After the last day of objections? Because mine doesn't say awaiting discharge yet, but I'm guessing it's because it isn't may 9th yet?
        Filed 01/31/08
        341 03/10/08:
        Last day for Objections 05/09/2008
        DISCHARGED AND CLOSED 05/12/2008

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          #5
          Just remember that stressing over it is not going to change anything either way...take a lot of deep breaths and remember what is most important in day to day life, for real.
          Last edited by 2confused; 04-09-2008, 10:12 PM.
          blush2:

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            #6
            Originally posted by cirnrab View Post
            So when will Pacer say awaiting discharge? After the last day of objections? Because mine doesn't say awaiting discharge yet, but I'm guessing it's because it isn't may 9th yet?
            Mine has said "awaiting discharge" since before my 341, which incidentally was the same date as yours.

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              #7
              Originally posted by cirnrab View Post
              So when will Pacer say awaiting discharge? After the last day of objections? Because mine doesn't say awaiting discharge yet, but I'm guessing it's because it isn't may 9th yet?

              I dont see "awaiting discharge" anywhere on pacer either. Exactly where is this comment being posted?

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                #8
                Originally posted by jp2861 View Post
                I dont see "awaiting discharge" anywhere on pacer either. Exactly where is this comment being posted?

                Under case summary, "Status:" It says "awaiting discharge". I have no idea when it showed, I haven't looked at pacer since a few days after we filed.

                Have you put in your post credit counseling certificates? We filed everything we need and now we are just waiting for the 60 days to be up, which is April 25th. I am assuming it will be discharged and maybe even closed by the 26th. It's just these last few weeks that I am being impatient about.


                On the plus side, we are looking at a house this weekend that I *think* will be the one. It's not as nice as the condos we saw, but it's a cute little cape, will suit our needs and most importantly, it's in a nice neighborhood. And, the price is $1100/month, BUT it includes heat, hot water and electric. Since I budgeted up to $1100/month for just rent and another $300-$400/month for utilities it's a great deal. And, the person showing us the house is the owner, so we will have a chance to talk to them face to face. I have a good feeling about it. Wish us luck on Saturday!

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                  #9
                  There is no "status' under the case summary. Please be more specific if you can.

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                    #10
                    I can't help you, under case summary it had my name, info, date I filed, etc and there was a line that said "Status" and "Awaiting Discharge" was next to it. Maybe it's different in different states?

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by kl030505 View Post
                      I was doing so well at keeping myself together waiting out the 60 days. But the closer the 60 day deadline gets, the more my stomach gets into knots. It's silly of course, there's absolutely no way anyone will object, they don't have a leg to stand on. The Trustee pretty much told us at the 341 that he was closing the case as a no-asset and that was it. It's just waiting out the objection period. Status in pacer says, "Awaiting discharge". It's all going to be fine, we are going to get the clean slate, and yet, the closer we get to April 25th the more impatient and nervous I get!

                      Maybe it's the stress of finding a place to live. We have an agreement with the mortgage company to be out by May 1st... and that is freaking me out. I just have to keep reminding myself. Patience is a virtue. Wish I had more of it!
                      I don't think it is that unusual. I know in my case I was more and more anxious for it to be over as the time went on and I was afraid some bank would file an objection on the 59th day or something...

                      The best thing to do of course is to just forget about it, try to keep busy doing other things and not think about it. 99 chances out of 100 there will be no objection and all will be well.

                      Good luck!
                      <<I am NOT an attorney, my comments are anecdotal only. Contact an attorney for advice>>
                      FINALLY DISCHARGED 92 DAYS AFTER THE 341! A NEW START!!!

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