I am not sure about the state and federal rules regarding disabilities, but if neither the state or SSA will classify you as disabled, I think you have an uphill battle getting your student loans discharged. I do know there are TWO types of SSA disability benefits, the "insured" benefits which are your standard benefits, but requires you to have worked for so many years and paid into the system, then there are the need-based benefits...it sound like you failed on the needs-based benefits if you were denied because your wife makes too much money. Also, SSA Need based only pays for TOTAL disability.
Also, I have to wonder, you seem fairly lucent, can type on the computer, you went to school (apparently), there probably are jobs that you can do. Thus, I have to wonder about the nature of the disability.
To follow-up on PA Kettle's line of thought, you may be able to try a "financial separation". A financial separation is similar to a divorce, the only difference is, the financial separation does not dissolve the marriage. The procedure for getting a financial separation is very similar to a divorce, you still go to family court, you still have a hearing in front of a family court judge, but it is a legal way for a married couple to separate themselves as legal entities.
Also, I have to wonder, you seem fairly lucent, can type on the computer, you went to school (apparently), there probably are jobs that you can do. Thus, I have to wonder about the nature of the disability.
To follow-up on PA Kettle's line of thought, you may be able to try a "financial separation". A financial separation is similar to a divorce, the only difference is, the financial separation does not dissolve the marriage. The procedure for getting a financial separation is very similar to a divorce, you still go to family court, you still have a hearing in front of a family court judge, but it is a legal way for a married couple to separate themselves as legal entities.
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