First off, note that I had a previous post asking for info on how a 13 budget would be hashed out if only I filed and wife did not.
Now, my wife is thinking that filing jointly would be a good idea...she is drowning in bills also. Are most (if not all) of her issues due
to my inability to handle credit? Well, no doubt my issues have helped her in to a corner also.
My wife is worried about filing a 13 due to two problems:
1) She leased a new car 6 months ago; 3.5 years left on lease. (note she did this lease to lower her car payment, which it did by $100/m).
So question: If she files, and we're in a 5-year plan, what is she going to do for a car in 3.5 years? Our employment situations pretty well
require us to have our own cars. Any chance she will get financed in 3.5 years, even to buy the leased vehicle?
2) Mortgage! The house is in her name only. She got a modification just a few months ago which lowered the payment a little ($125/m), but
it is only a 5-year plan. So there is like a $140,000 final payment. Even if a 13 plan is finishing up about the time that the mortgage contract
is coming due, will she be able to get a loan to refinance the house?
She is concerned that filing will overall destroy her ability to get another car and keep the house. We talked to our atty several months ago about all this, and he could not guarantee much of anything. Now she is really thinking that her life would be simplified by us filing together, and yet she
worries about the "end game" with a car and the house.
If anyone has any thoughts about these issues, or perhaps some direct experience, we would greatly appreciate the info. We're going to talk to the atty again this week, so any input would help us with prepping for that meeting.
Now, my wife is thinking that filing jointly would be a good idea...she is drowning in bills also. Are most (if not all) of her issues due
to my inability to handle credit? Well, no doubt my issues have helped her in to a corner also.
My wife is worried about filing a 13 due to two problems:
1) She leased a new car 6 months ago; 3.5 years left on lease. (note she did this lease to lower her car payment, which it did by $100/m).
So question: If she files, and we're in a 5-year plan, what is she going to do for a car in 3.5 years? Our employment situations pretty well
require us to have our own cars. Any chance she will get financed in 3.5 years, even to buy the leased vehicle?
2) Mortgage! The house is in her name only. She got a modification just a few months ago which lowered the payment a little ($125/m), but
it is only a 5-year plan. So there is like a $140,000 final payment. Even if a 13 plan is finishing up about the time that the mortgage contract
is coming due, will she be able to get a loan to refinance the house?
She is concerned that filing will overall destroy her ability to get another car and keep the house. We talked to our atty several months ago about all this, and he could not guarantee much of anything. Now she is really thinking that her life would be simplified by us filing together, and yet she
worries about the "end game" with a car and the house.
If anyone has any thoughts about these issues, or perhaps some direct experience, we would greatly appreciate the info. We're going to talk to the atty again this week, so any input would help us with prepping for that meeting.
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