so here goes. i am looking for input so please help me. i filed chapter 13 in 10/09. i owe 80k unsecured and 15k in secured. for the last 10 years i was the breadwinner. the house is in my husbands name only. i have lost over 30k in income last year and continued to live like we didnt which is why i am here. my chapter 13 hasnt been confirmed due to trustee wanting to raise my payments by $700 month. this is the amount of my 401k loan that i still pay back my monthly until 7/2011. i cant afford this. i have called attorney office several time since jan to get this fixed modified ect. so i called today and paralegal told me she hasnt gotten to it i go back to court on tuesday. i have the option to cash in mutual fund that is joint with my mother to payoff 401k loan and reborrow to settle with my creditors. majority of debt is owed 2 boa which was sold to portfolio recoveries, 18k to citi and 20k to discover. am i better off doing this and trying to settle as it would make my life and familys much better as there would be more income on monthly basis? someone please give me input my husband is sooo mad at me and after 16 years of marriage im not throwing in towel. thanks in advance
p.s im on clip to make another 20k less this year from last.
p.s im on clip to make another 20k less this year from last.
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