I had my 1st consult with an atty last week. Currently exploring every possible option before making any decision. Have had no late payments on anything but work a fully commission job that has netted me less than 7k of after tax take home money in the past 7 months. Single income family with 3 young children (6, 4, 2). Previous years incomes have gone from 350k to 200k to 125k to 85k. We clearly have wasted money but aren't "spenders" (paid for cars in cash etc). Our demise has stemmed primarily from a significantly reduced income and an investment property that went horribly wrong and I sold out to my partner for about 40% on the dollar. To boot, the money used to invest was from unsecured lines of credit. Currently about 120k deep in unsecured lines, 30k in heloc and 4k in credit card debt. The credit lines are tapped and I don't want to put anything more on the heloc (home value appx 300k, primary mtg @ 235k and heloc @ 30k).
I really fear the budget plan. What if I go 3 months w/out a paycheck, or at least a substantial one and can't pay the bills (basically what I'm going thru now except I have credit to pay the bills/mtg)? We don't have savings today to pay for bills. If I sell out of another investment property, stocks, kids 529's etc during 13, do all of these proceeds go direct to creditors?
I'm so tired of living like this. I have let my family down, I've let myself down. I am not excited about this but am wondering if this is my only way out - but fear failing at this as well. Any feedback would be seriously appreciated.
I really fear the budget plan. What if I go 3 months w/out a paycheck, or at least a substantial one and can't pay the bills (basically what I'm going thru now except I have credit to pay the bills/mtg)? We don't have savings today to pay for bills. If I sell out of another investment property, stocks, kids 529's etc during 13, do all of these proceeds go direct to creditors?
I'm so tired of living like this. I have let my family down, I've let myself down. I am not excited about this but am wondering if this is my only way out - but fear failing at this as well. Any feedback would be seriously appreciated.
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