OK, after stressing and waffling for the past few days - going first toward debt settlement, then to chapter 13, then to Debt Repayment Plan, now back to 13..I was planning on calling all of my card companies tomorrow, and:
A. Canceling all of my cards
B. Asking them to forgive any payments, interest or late fees from now till 3/31, as I am exploring either a DRP or Ch13 (in reality, it is probably going to be 13)
I just figured - why keep the meter running? I know it probably doesn't matter in the end, because they will get what they're getting out of my payments, regardless of what I owe them. Just thought I should be up front. I've abandoned my checking account - it reached zero, but they've paid 2 of my auto pays, and I now have a -$800 balance. I definitely have to call them tomorrow and tell them to either close the account, or at the very least, stop letting things pay!
Also, all of these cards were used in my business. I do have a few (2) personal cards, but unfortunately, they are with some of the same companies I have my business cards with that I'm going to be filing for (Chase = $0 and BOA, where I owe like $1700. Paying off the $1700 would not be a big deal, and a few of my monthly expenses are billed to that card (gym, XM, home security system, Wall st. journal). I usually pay it off in full every month. Also, I do my online bill pay through them, where I pay my phone, Sam's club, and Electric.
Should I cancel this one as well, or should I try to keep it, or are they just going to nuke it on me when I file on my other BOA cards? I've had the card forever, and have an excellent payment history with them on THAT card. In fact, all of my personal finances are fine - it is the business that did me in.
What do you think? Should I call them all and be up front, should I cancel my personal cards too, or should I try to pay and keep at least the BOA card? Will this be seen as preferential payment? If I pay it now, and just charge and pay minimum amounts going forward (the house stuff), will it still get flagged and lumped in?
I'd also like to thank everyone here for trying to make me feel better. I'm sort of coming to terms with this, but I am still stressed beyond belief (how do you exactly know when you're having a nervous breakdown?) I just keep telling myself I'm REORGANIZING, not going bankrupt.
A. Canceling all of my cards
B. Asking them to forgive any payments, interest or late fees from now till 3/31, as I am exploring either a DRP or Ch13 (in reality, it is probably going to be 13)
I just figured - why keep the meter running? I know it probably doesn't matter in the end, because they will get what they're getting out of my payments, regardless of what I owe them. Just thought I should be up front. I've abandoned my checking account - it reached zero, but they've paid 2 of my auto pays, and I now have a -$800 balance. I definitely have to call them tomorrow and tell them to either close the account, or at the very least, stop letting things pay!
Also, all of these cards were used in my business. I do have a few (2) personal cards, but unfortunately, they are with some of the same companies I have my business cards with that I'm going to be filing for (Chase = $0 and BOA, where I owe like $1700. Paying off the $1700 would not be a big deal, and a few of my monthly expenses are billed to that card (gym, XM, home security system, Wall st. journal). I usually pay it off in full every month. Also, I do my online bill pay through them, where I pay my phone, Sam's club, and Electric.
Should I cancel this one as well, or should I try to keep it, or are they just going to nuke it on me when I file on my other BOA cards? I've had the card forever, and have an excellent payment history with them on THAT card. In fact, all of my personal finances are fine - it is the business that did me in.
What do you think? Should I call them all and be up front, should I cancel my personal cards too, or should I try to pay and keep at least the BOA card? Will this be seen as preferential payment? If I pay it now, and just charge and pay minimum amounts going forward (the house stuff), will it still get flagged and lumped in?
I'd also like to thank everyone here for trying to make me feel better. I'm sort of coming to terms with this, but I am still stressed beyond belief (how do you exactly know when you're having a nervous breakdown?) I just keep telling myself I'm REORGANIZING, not going bankrupt.
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