Okie.. So I knew when I posted that some people wouldn't be all that comfortable with the idea, but let me give you an idea of my situation..
I have a two year old son and before BK I went a LOT of time without food for myself in order to keep my son fed. A LOT... Like, almost every month for two weeks. On top of that for the few months prior to filing I lost my job which is really why I ended up having to do this in the first place. Losing my job put me behind in rent, which I am paying the arrears outside of BK, but turned out to be a bit more than I thought it was. I am still behind a bit each month, even with the BK budget in place and hopefully in time I will get everything caught up and I will be okay.. For now, though, I need to find a way to have a little wiggle room in my budget otherwise I'm SOL. Especially considering that I am having another little one in April.
This is a good alternative for people who DON'T qualify for government assistance, which is my case. Even barely making it, and even when unemployed, I don't/didn't qualify for food stamp assistance. I do need the help. ALL of us in BK need the help. I am not taking anything away from anybody and I don't feel guilty. I am one of the most generous people you'll ever meet, I think that this is one of God's ways of returning that and telling me that I am not alone.
Times are hard. Food prices are ridiculous and our payments aren't going down just because of it. We ALL need to find ways to live more frugally and if this helped any person than it was worth it.
I have a two year old son and before BK I went a LOT of time without food for myself in order to keep my son fed. A LOT... Like, almost every month for two weeks. On top of that for the few months prior to filing I lost my job which is really why I ended up having to do this in the first place. Losing my job put me behind in rent, which I am paying the arrears outside of BK, but turned out to be a bit more than I thought it was. I am still behind a bit each month, even with the BK budget in place and hopefully in time I will get everything caught up and I will be okay.. For now, though, I need to find a way to have a little wiggle room in my budget otherwise I'm SOL. Especially considering that I am having another little one in April.
This is a good alternative for people who DON'T qualify for government assistance, which is my case. Even barely making it, and even when unemployed, I don't/didn't qualify for food stamp assistance. I do need the help. ALL of us in BK need the help. I am not taking anything away from anybody and I don't feel guilty. I am one of the most generous people you'll ever meet, I think that this is one of God's ways of returning that and telling me that I am not alone.
Times are hard. Food prices are ridiculous and our payments aren't going down just because of it. We ALL need to find ways to live more frugally and if this helped any person than it was worth it.
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