Hi everyone, I have been reading this message board for about a month and have learned a great deal about bankruptcy in addition to reading just about everything I could find online. I have a few questions and comments if you all don't mind me asking.
First off, I am a dealer at a casino and I've never had a spending problem in the manner that most people spend money for personal things...o.k. I should know better than the average person because I work there, right? That's what everyone says but I see people winning every day and somewhere in my mind I think "I can do that" even though I can't. It's messed up. Anyway, great with money matters EXCEPT for when it comes to gambling. I keep thinking of it as a possibility to get more back and in truth It has been one of the biggest struggles of my life as this year I have really messed up. My partner and I were going to GA two years ago and I only thought I had a problem then.
Concerning the bankruptcy, from last October until March of this year I lost about $10,000. That's more money than I have ever lost in one year because I have always kept myself off the bet when I started losing too much. I got a loan from Capital One for $15,000 and took $5,300 from my 401K to consolidate my debts. I paid off all of my unsecured creditors but left a credit line worth $12,000 (now $13,750) with a balance of $500.
Then I went to the casinos to try to get lucky and pay the remainder of the balance off and my partner and I lost $2,000. Here comes the chasing. That led to another $1,000, $2,000, etc...Here I am 7 months later and $18,000 more in debt. I think I have lost my mind somewhere in all of it and as a result
I have caused my partner and I a lot of financial hardship. Please don't remind me how horrible I am. I remind myself of that every single day of my life for letting myself get into this financial mess.
I will say that for so many years of my life I wanted to be "debt free" so I could tell everyone that I was "debt free"..I would say just short of killing myself to pay off my debts with worrying all the time about them. I put myself on a 2 year payment plan to pay off all of this debt but kept myself so brutally short at the end of the month that I felt like I NEEDED to win money at the casino to stay on my projected "debt free" plan. It got me here. Now I am trying my best to take this whole thing as a learning lesson and I cut up my checkbook and my debit card. So now I will work on a cash only system. My gf and I are talking about going back to GA. I cannot let this continue to hurt me anymore.
Anyway, went to a couple of lawyers. The first one was going out of town and really didn't say much other than that if I am going to file I should do it this year because It's going to get more difficult to file. The second one, I talked to a paralegal and she was great. She explained things to me much better and answered all of the questions I had for her. Since most of this debt was caused since late May I am concerned that my creditors will allege fraud against me. I have not taken a loan, cash advance, or anything since August 28. I have a few questions and I'm sorry this post is so long if any of you have read this far....
1. Since my debts occured so quickly and I haven't made that many payments can they come after me for fraud? ( I am really fighting guilty feelings for all that I have done and never one time did I even consider bankruptcy until I decided that I couldn't keep spending $1,000 a week at the casinos)
2. I'm a bit confused about the means test and schedule J. The means test shows about $140 a month discretionary income but looks like schedule J might show a bit more. Does anyone know what they go by when figuring out payment plan? The paralegal told me the trustee probably won't object to my 401K contributions and I will probably get my tax refund, also.
3. I am a month and a half on my mortgage and a month and a half late on my car ($7,500) balance and I have $15,000 equity in my home which doesn't come close to the $25,000 exemption for my state. Will my chapter 13 payment be higher should I continue to pay for my vehicle outside of my plan (assuming I catch up payments)?
4. This is a really slow month in the casino business and I am having a tough month. Should I wait a couple of extra weeks to file If it means that I will decrease my 6-month average by about $120?
Thanks you guys for reading my lengthy post and all help would be greatly appreciated.
First off, I am a dealer at a casino and I've never had a spending problem in the manner that most people spend money for personal things...o.k. I should know better than the average person because I work there, right? That's what everyone says but I see people winning every day and somewhere in my mind I think "I can do that" even though I can't. It's messed up. Anyway, great with money matters EXCEPT for when it comes to gambling. I keep thinking of it as a possibility to get more back and in truth It has been one of the biggest struggles of my life as this year I have really messed up. My partner and I were going to GA two years ago and I only thought I had a problem then.
Concerning the bankruptcy, from last October until March of this year I lost about $10,000. That's more money than I have ever lost in one year because I have always kept myself off the bet when I started losing too much. I got a loan from Capital One for $15,000 and took $5,300 from my 401K to consolidate my debts. I paid off all of my unsecured creditors but left a credit line worth $12,000 (now $13,750) with a balance of $500.
Then I went to the casinos to try to get lucky and pay the remainder of the balance off and my partner and I lost $2,000. Here comes the chasing. That led to another $1,000, $2,000, etc...Here I am 7 months later and $18,000 more in debt. I think I have lost my mind somewhere in all of it and as a result
I have caused my partner and I a lot of financial hardship. Please don't remind me how horrible I am. I remind myself of that every single day of my life for letting myself get into this financial mess.
I will say that for so many years of my life I wanted to be "debt free" so I could tell everyone that I was "debt free"..I would say just short of killing myself to pay off my debts with worrying all the time about them. I put myself on a 2 year payment plan to pay off all of this debt but kept myself so brutally short at the end of the month that I felt like I NEEDED to win money at the casino to stay on my projected "debt free" plan. It got me here. Now I am trying my best to take this whole thing as a learning lesson and I cut up my checkbook and my debit card. So now I will work on a cash only system. My gf and I are talking about going back to GA. I cannot let this continue to hurt me anymore.
Anyway, went to a couple of lawyers. The first one was going out of town and really didn't say much other than that if I am going to file I should do it this year because It's going to get more difficult to file. The second one, I talked to a paralegal and she was great. She explained things to me much better and answered all of the questions I had for her. Since most of this debt was caused since late May I am concerned that my creditors will allege fraud against me. I have not taken a loan, cash advance, or anything since August 28. I have a few questions and I'm sorry this post is so long if any of you have read this far....
1. Since my debts occured so quickly and I haven't made that many payments can they come after me for fraud? ( I am really fighting guilty feelings for all that I have done and never one time did I even consider bankruptcy until I decided that I couldn't keep spending $1,000 a week at the casinos)
2. I'm a bit confused about the means test and schedule J. The means test shows about $140 a month discretionary income but looks like schedule J might show a bit more. Does anyone know what they go by when figuring out payment plan? The paralegal told me the trustee probably won't object to my 401K contributions and I will probably get my tax refund, also.
3. I am a month and a half on my mortgage and a month and a half late on my car ($7,500) balance and I have $15,000 equity in my home which doesn't come close to the $25,000 exemption for my state. Will my chapter 13 payment be higher should I continue to pay for my vehicle outside of my plan (assuming I catch up payments)?
4. This is a really slow month in the casino business and I am having a tough month. Should I wait a couple of extra weeks to file If it means that I will decrease my 6-month average by about $120?
Thanks you guys for reading my lengthy post and all help would be greatly appreciated.
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