Why didn't your GF cancel the cards that she was the primary signer if she was not going to be making the payments. Failure to do so left her wide open for him to do exactly what he did, incur more debt in her name.
You have a choice to fight and be bitter in the short term, or bite the bullet and get on with life. Your choice.
Debt that one party assumes responsibility for in the divorce is NOT debt owed to the ex spouse. It is debt owed to Visa (or MC, Discover, etc.). The only way it becomes debt owed to an (ex) spouse is if he doesn't pay it, and she then does pay it. She can then pursue him for reimbursement for what she had to pay.
I think what complicates everything is that she remained a co-debtor on cards even after the divorce. That was not good. Not getting her name removed was bad.
Did your GF or her divorce attorney not ever consider the fact that the ex wouldn't pay for debt that wasn't his? Surely you all realized that. Does she have any recourse against the divorce attorney who put her into this mess. Why in the world would she agree to assigning responsibility for payment over to someone else, when she had so much at risk?
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